Newbie help needed

It’s my first day here and I read many posts, I mean I read non-stop for like 8 hours here. I saw many success stories, saw before and afters, injuries, disappointments and happiness and satisfaction many people got from this site and I saw Yguy’s thread kept reading and it got me pumped up.

I went to shower and did warm up as suggested, started with stretching and did regular jelqing. There I noticed some problems.
I’m a tall guy 19 years old and I have penis with measurements of BPEL 5.5inches and EG 4.8inches. BPFSL 5.9inches, while being flaccid I’m 2.5inches in length I’m grower.

1. Now the first problem I faced was that I couldn’t stretch my penis without putting pressure on the head. I tried to grab it from lil below the head but it would slide up with skin and start squeezing the head. Didn’t help even after I tried to hold skin down with other hand. I’ve heard squeezing the head is bad for penis.

2. The second problem I faced was that on 60%erect state I wasn’t able to properly jelq. As I said I’m a tall guy and I got huge hands and I couldn’t properly grab my penis with underhead ok sign. So then I did overhead jelqs it was working but is it same as underhead jelqing? And another thing is that even tho I’m cut but the skin still moves up during jelqing, I was wet jelqing.

3. One more question, is it safe to wash away your penis with soap after jelqing? As I jelqed with olive oil and it was sticky.

I’ll be waiting for any replies. Please do help me out. I’ve always been insecure about my penis. I’m 19 and still virgin. I know 5.5 is average but with having such a huge body it seems too small when I look myself at mirror. My first goal’s gonna be 6.5” length and 5”+ girth.
I’m reading every thread I’m able to but getting answers personally will help me out better. I hope to get some quick advice responses so I start my PE asap. Thank You all!

Somebody? Please I need to start and I can’t find my answers.

Pressure will build up in your glans, there is no way around. Properly gripping for a good stretch, glans is gonna get “clamped” here. If you light your grip, you will end up stretching only your skin, which is pointless.

Squeezing directly on the glans could be bad, but stretching is far away from this scenario.

“Underhand” and “overhand” is all about preference. They will work as long as you put pressure on the sides of the penis, not forcing the top and the bottom side.

Yes, it is.

I started with a similar size dick. I found that if I gripped my shaft about 3/4 inch below the glans and slid my grip up towards the glans I created a small cushion of fore skin between my grip and the glans iwhich helped prevent slipping the grip up and over the glans.

I also have significant scrotal webbing (turkey neck) which when combined with my “shortish” dick mad it difficult to complete a two handed jelq so I resorted to one handed jelqs.

Dry jelq !!

Thank you for your replies. I wanted to start jelqing but I read more and more and found out if you have Erectile dysfunction and do jelqing you might end up never having an erection, I don’t want that. I think I might have mild ED since I have been over masturbating for 6 years and without lube and I have cut penis I might have damaged my penile valves as I get hard erection and I lose it in between a min the blood doesn’t stay in penis/penis goes back to flaccid. I stopped masturbating and am planning to keep it once a month for my penis to recover as much as possible. Then if I still feel like I have ED I will have to consult a urologist but I don’t feel like showing my penis to somebody it feels weird. Well I will have to not do anything to my penis.

For now I will stick with kegel exercise to strengthen my PC muscles and not to masturbate more than twice a month once if possible until I’m sure I don’t have ED and can start doing Stretching and Jelqing exercises.

Thank you for your replies tho.

And if possible I would like you guys to suggest me tips with ED. Like do I have to get different diet? Do I need to totally stop masturbating? Even tho its difficult for me but I haven’t masturbated for 11 days now. Will kegels work to overcome ED. And I have bent penis that always faces upwards when erect. Like not front straight erect but curved upwards like this (\|) not (—-|) does that mean I have damaged my penis and now I have Peyronie’s disease? I just feel so scared already about all this. I’m still virgin and God know if I will ever be able to have a normal sex life it scares me.

Clean and balanced diet should promote or maintain complete and overall health … for you, in the future, to use your money in anything else besides meds. Diet itself won’t support everything in your body: sleep, water consumption, moderate aerobic exercises and etc.

For a healthy prostate you need to whack off (blowing everything out) 21 times per month. Personally I like to do it once per week. Had an intense past with porno and this is how I manage to keep everything balanced (EQ mostly).

Any improvements EQ-wise?

No actually. EQ feels same as before. To experiment I opened porn. I didn’t touch my penis and got hard and it faded off to 80% and stayed like that for as long as porn was there and faded off under a min after I closed porn. I don’t know why but I don’t feel the urge to masturbate either. But I have been masturbating past like 9 months average of once a day. Maybe I did too much. Now I do get hard but it just shakes off and maybe I’m scared or something after I came to know about ED and Premature Ejaculation I just don’t wanna masturbate. I hope it will help out later. Well I’ll have to wait some time to see what result I get. Somewhere I had read that to countermeasure abusive masturbation one has to cut it off completely for 2 months and then keep it once a week or twice a month for healthy life. Maybe my body is too tired now or I’m just too scared to masturbate again.

One more thing I noticed tonight is that when I was doing erect kegels, after d

Holding the kegel tight for 3 sec during release my penis was twitching. It has happened before too, when my penis is erect it twitches sometimes. Is it normal or is it because of weak PC muscles or some totally other reason behind the erect twitchings? Thank you.

Normal.

Drink water, exercise, solve any issues you are having with life for good. You will get rock hard erections.

I assume you have checked your general health yes?

Thank you for all your replies. Yes I drink around 3 litres of water daily from the past month now. And no I haven’t been to doctor for general health checkup since I remember.

Does just 2 time jelqing put pressure on penis? I jelqed just for 2 times and after that my erections haven’t been same. I am not getting hard as I usually used to on some stuff. And I have kegeled but after I pass blood to penis the erection instead of getting harder after kegeling blood passes to penis and it gets more flaccid. I had jelqed with proper warm-up and didn’t jelq more than 50 strokes. Should I wait and give it rest or see a doctor?

Go check your heart and blood sugar. If these are ok, then it is nothing serious. You need to have these two at least checked. Other reasons may cause ED but these two are the most dangerous.

So, get them out of the way, I am sure you are fine, but you have to eliminate this certain possibility.

Thanks I will go to doctor as soon as possible and if possible I might check a urologist soon to know for sure if I have ED or no. But before that I’m thinking of taking a month or more break from masturbating. Maybe I lost too much sperm or something because I’ve been doing it too much lately. Its day 13th I haven’t done yet.

Can you also tell me if masturbation with semi erect penis is possible. I realized recently that sometimes I can ejaculate with 60-80% erection too if I fap. Is that normal?

Thank You!