Newbi here

Your starting size was already above average in every country dude.

In most countries, only 1 out of 25 have 17cm. Most of women don’t even have so many partners their whole life.

Yes, but in the way I see I do not care about the WORLD average size, the only one I care is in the country I live and state, because those are the ones I am competing with, after all we are animals. So the state I live is Bahia and city Salvador the city with most African descendants (or black population) outside Africa in the world. Even though there are all kinds of people here, the majority is black so I gotta put my standards up high. As I am not in Europe, Asia or Africa, I am in Brazil and I do not pretend to live in other place so there is no point for me to compare myself with people from other parts of the world. I am not trying to make you all think the way I do, it is just the way I see things in nature.

What was reaction of women to your size?
Because many countries have only self-report studies, what says about nothing. Sometimes it was measured, but it’s single study and hard to find how exactly it was measured. So the best option I see is to ask native.

I have the same situation Father has a big dick ( I guess it’s 20 cm and 13 cm girth, as I only once saw it thru his pants flaccid and it looked like it’s 14 cm length and the flaccid girth of his is bigger then mine when flaccid )

My dad is 185 cm+ and I am born 180 cm and 15.5 cm-16 cm length and 11,5-12 cm girth. So yeah life is sometimes unfair. I started PE for the reason being I needed more girth I only gained 1.5 cm length and new veins so I’m happy it’s a long process but it is worth it I am at it for 7 months and for 2 months I haven’t still got any new gains so you need to be calm and patient! It’s worth doing PE. I believe I will get a bigger dick then my dad in 2 years for sure, even tho It ain’t my goal. I know everything is possible, It’s cool knowing you’re the biggest dick in the room, think about it my goal was only girth 14 cm and now I feel like I can get 20 cm length with it in a few years, no hurry no rush just patient and hard work, best of look to you brother, remember one thing, your confidence is more important then your dick size if you find a normal girlfriend. So chin up, stick that chest out and walk proudly with your DICK! NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE! one love brother !

Confidence is important to find girl, but then communication and observation takes huge lead. Every woman has her own unique erogenous zones and triggers. Your goal is to find that and use. Here is small example, every person used to masturbate in specific way. We know what we like and we do that certain way. Now imagine what if you did something completely opposite? Instead of jerking off, do twisting. Does that work for you? Can you cum this way?

It’s absolutely same situation when you approach other people. You don’t know what they like and in most cases you are going to do that wrong at first. Some people do that wrong whole life, when they don’t want to learn and see responses. But when they do it right, they can make women to orgasm huge amount of time and in most of these penis wasn’t important at all. It was mood and perfect sequence. Somehow most of men prefer to ignore ability of women to cum from less than pinky size vibrator.

We’ll said qweqweqad1.

I can second that. In my personal life I’ve discovered that exploring every woman’s body as if it’s my first time is massively important. Sure, I’ll try out all the various techniques I’ve amassed over the years, but I make a point of setting aside all preconceptions and assumptions and just listen to her body and reactions and let that guide me.

I can also say from first hand experience that bigger isn’t always better. One of my early girlfriends broke up with me because I was too large. She had a sky high sex drive and liked to bang a couple times a day. She really didn’t like having to go a day or two without sex because she was too sore to enjoy it. I’m not even huge, just a bit above average. I’ve had two other girls make comments along the lines of “it was great but I wouldn’t want to take that thing every day”.

I’ve also had two girls imply that I’m not big enough for them, or that they’d like it if I were bigger. Not to mention that while my wife would never say anything close to that, she loves being stretched wide and hit deep (more so than my penis can manage), so here I am!

I think every woman is totally unique. What fits them well physically, which areas offer the stimulation they most enjoy, and what turns them on the most.

Can you just get out of the house for an hour? You can do pumping, stretching, or jelqing in your car in an empty parking lot or something.

You can also do it in your bed, so you can pull the covers up if someone starts coming.

Not to derail the OP’s topic, but to me, it sounds like you are only “competing” with yourself. You need a change of mindset my brother.

I’ve never understood the size obsession. You are the one in front of her at that moment, she’s not running through a check list of all the other guy’s penises she’s been with.

OP, get out there and have sex. Who cares about some random bitches opinion anyway? If she thinks you’re dick isn’t long enough that’s her problem and shows how much of a shallow person she is.

It’s important that you don’t miss out on you’re youth, that’s coming from someone who has for other reasons.