Need Cheering Up After Dick Discussion With FWB

Gains4Gains I would be more than happy to have your size! Your size is my goal! LOL.

I have been in your situation. Although the way I found out was by actually asking and wanting to know. My relationship went sour from there.

I used to be a mess of insecurities. Every small dick joke was a dagger in my back. Every time I heard a big dick reference I would cower on the inside a little. Something happened, I snapped, calll it grace, whatever, now I don’t give a shit. Nothing is gunna stop me from fucking like a goddamn champ. My soul has a cock that is 8x6 and hard as a rock. My bodies just catching up. Lol.

Good for you kave!

I love that last part. You keep at it Kave, the body will catch up.

I had a FWB for around 2 years, I’ve never cared about or understood the woman has had a bigger dick problem, even with my wife, but I think maybe you have more feelings for this FWB than you think, and I also have a story about size, probably your FWB is being honest about not enjoying her experience.

My FWB called one day and wanted to talk, so we had dinner. We had both been tested so we could enjoy unprotected sex (I’m fixed), and had agreed to disclose any sex, especially unprotected sex that occurred with others for our safety.

She told me her and her girlfriend had been drunk at a house party, and she had fucked a young guy who her girlfriend had told her had a huge dick in the bathroom.

She said halfway through she sobered up because of the pain, and also realized what she was doing, got off him and apologized. He asked her to at least suck him off, but she said no, he got an attitude naturally enough, so her and her friend left the party.

I asked her just how big “huge” was, she said he was about as long as her forearm, (5’2” girl), so I’m thinking around 9” NBP. She said she would never consider one that big again, so your FWB is probably very happy with you, you need to get your mind right and enjoy the sex.

Women always say they want the biggest cock they can find - and they do. Until they find it. I’ve had several women reject me after one roll in the hay because I choked them. Really? If you have a coke bottle dick it takes a little practice for her to be able to enjoy it. Just get out there and keep rolling your brains out and learn how to cum multiple times. You won’t be able to keep them off you. Don’t think so much!

If you want to be really happy with your cock start sticking it in this girl every chance you get instead of worrying what else has been there. I’ve never been less obsessed about measuring my cock and stretching it since I started getting fucked every goddamn day now all I worry about is EQ and having fun! You actually sound like one of those people that will end up with 9 x 7 and still not be happy. Your dick size is never going to make you happy… getting laid will though and having a relationship with someone you care about.

Hi guys

I wanted to thank you all for your support and helping me feel better. I really appreciate your wise words and encouragement.

You’re right- I’m learning that happiness has to come from the inside and until I accept that, my pursuit of huge size will never truly be enough. It’s more about focusing on body positivity and mind and spirit positivity for me; that’s the revelation I had today.

I thank you for the nice comments about my size as well- though my mind tells me it needs to be bigger, hearing some positive words from this community helps ease my mental struggles of acceptance when it comes to size. I really appreciate your positivity! :)

Hope you all have had a good day today!

I’m sort of in the same boat as you. My dick just never seems like enough, even though I’m over 8 inches already and statistically at least, way bigger than average. Its just not enough, and it was a total obsession for me, until I just let it go, and just focused on my PE journey. If you’re too goal orientated it can and will drive you crazy. So here is my suggestion to you.

Next time you do PE, just focus on the sensation. Really feel that stretch, really enjoy that jelq. Enjoy the sensation of touching yourself. Feel that edging session and the pleasure it brings you to. Realize that you can pleasure yourself and you don’t need a woman’s approval about anything. This stretch is making you bigger, and this session, over time, will make a difference. No matter what anybody says.

When I started doing that, things changed. And its as if the gains almost rolled along without effort.