My penis and the issues of growing older

First off let me start with I’m 49. I’m also happily married for the past 15 years. Sex has always been amazing! With that said, let’s get back to my penis. For most of my life I was around 6x6.25 and never had any complaints from my wife or past partners. But to be honest and this is the root of my story, I’m also 6’10” and a solid 330lbs. Even though I had a perfectly healthy penis and somewhat above average girth, I was always super subconscious with my overall size compared to my body make up. Plus I was a grower and not a shower! My flaccid length was often around 1 inch. I can’t tell you how embarrassed I was to even be naked in front of my wife unless I was erect.…I always had women say, I bet you are hung like a horse (because I’m a freaking giant). So even though my wife was more than happy this always had bothered me… Deeply. Greatly!

The Age Shrinkage: About 5 years ago this all came to an extreme head. I had always heard that your penis shrinks as you get older. But holy cow! I found myself looking in the bathroom mirror while my wife was getting me erect. And I couldn’t believe it. What happened to my penis I yelled? It looked really tiny! I knew it looked and felt smaller over the past months/year but still. I honestly stopped her and got a measuring tape….. Low and behold, my penis had shrunk to <5.1 inches fully erect! I was horrified.

The family doctor’s visit: I went to the doctor and dropped my pants and then asked how do we fix this? How much smaller will it get? Etc.!
The doctor took his finger and pressed it over an 1.5 inch into my pelvic pad. He said there’s your problem! Lose weight and you will get some of that back!

The diet: Over the course of 6 months or so I lost an amazing 60bls. And yes to my amazement I got about ~¾ inch back but I still had pelvic pad left and I was getting to skinny so what to do next?

The Plastic Surgeon: I got Lippo (~$800 outpatient) on my pelvic pad and the results was even more amazing. Now I’m in the plus column with another ~.5 inch…. Now I’m bigger than I ever remember and super happy… what else can we do I asked? What about fixing flaccid shrinkage? The Plastic Surgeon suggest a 6 syringes of Radiesse ($3000). Now let me state a few results after the Radiesse…. Erect I was now 6.5x7….. Flaccid (thanks to the wt. Of the injections) A full 5.75 to 6 inches with minimum retraction! Now before anyone jumps me for injections, I think it’s important to go slow and even though Doctors say it’s not permanent I had mine done 3 years ago and still looks amazing. Is it perfectly smooth no…. But to be honest, I will take a couple little bumps in exchange of the vast improvements I enjoy in flaccid length.

Pumping: The doctor also sold me a medical PE pump ($190). I have found that a good slow/long pump every other day or so (especially on days I know my wife and I will have sex) adds even more size without looking overly pumped/swollen etc.….. Measurements on these days boost to 6.75x7.25….. On a side note… I just bought a Bathmate Wide Boy and will replace my medical pump in hopes of more permanent growth.

Sex with my wife: Even more amazing. Over that past 15 years we have had sex 1000’s of times. Awhile back after all of these improvements she told me she was still sore from the night before! She’s never told me that before! Now, she calls me donkey dick! What guy doesn’t want to hear that? One of the biggest results I have seen is her time to climax has been cut in half or better.

Next steps for me: Someday I would love to get more injections. I also look forward to using my BathMate and seeing more girth! (I have found that girth is king… especially according to my wife now).

So with all that said. I really wanted to share my story and what and how I did it. It sucks getting old but it doesn’t have to mean you lose your cock size. Sorry If I got a little wordy and I hope anything I have experienced might help any of you.

Jelqing could have done all that, except the weight loss. That you had to do on your own.

Not sure why but this sounds more of a commercial post than a life experience.

In any case, glad of your success.

Not trying to be rude but this pretty much goes against everything(except the pump)that’s preached and taught on here where doing it manually and/ or with the aid of different ‘tools’ like extenders, pumps, hanging devices and clamps are key in gaining penis size and a pretty safe bet.

From what I can tell going the surgical/ injection route is far from recommended, and as you already mentioned isn’t a permanent solution+ the fact that it comes with a high degree of risk.

We have had one guy on here from what I can remember that had both length and girth surgery done and ended up with big open sores on his penis. It looked like something out of a horror movie.

Anyhow glad you’ve gotten good results that you feel happy with but as already said jelqing alone could have gotten you these results. That combined with some simple manual stretches have given many, many men on here and elsewhere as good and even much better results than you’ve gotten.

I for one would never even consider injections nor surgery as at the end of the day I’ve only got one penis and I cherish it too much to experiment with it like you’ve done. And if you had read the big gainer thread you’d realize that guys you’re age and older have gotten quite impressive results doing it manually using time, persistence and the exercises taught on here. I’m talking of guys your age and older having gained upwards of 2 inches in length and 1+ inches in girth in under a year.

Again, not being rude, just speaking my opinion on this subject as it almost sounded like you think what you’ve done is the one and only solution for gaining size which is so far from the truth as it can be.

I also write this maybe as a caution for any new members coming on here, finding this thread and maybe starts thinking that this is the one and only way to go which it most definitely isn’t. Also the feeling of having actually worked and put in the time and effort to gain manually is worth more to me than any type of injection/ surgery would ever be. It’s quite the exciting journey to be honest.

And weight loss is also one thing that’s always mentioned on here for gaining/ regaining lost penis size so it’s nothing new under the sun in that aspect. Thought that was just common sense and not something a Doctor would have to inform anyone about. But that’s just my opinion.

Again, glad you’re happy with your new size it’s just the methods, except the pump I’ve got a somewhat problem with.

Nice job on the weight loss and your girth is ridiculous! Enjoy life!

One good thing about age, though, is increase in flaccid length. That’s about the only thing you can look forward to with age.

Congratulations on your success. A 7.25” girth is massive. Do you have any pictures to post?

I’m sorry, I can’t help but suspect this post, given the particular commercial way it is framed and the way particular products and prices are specified, complete with marketeer’s ”now I feel super great” touches in between. Why did you feel the need to cap the product names and specify prices? Have many people here messaged you about where you got your treatment?

In what part of the penis did the doc inject Radiesse ?

Nick667 - just down either side of the shaft.

I guess I should have known better. To actually want to share my deeply personnel 5 year journey on a website that is supposedly dedicated to sharing ideas and results. When I started five years ago, I was going to start a journal on this site documenting every step of the way. I’m glad I didn’t waste my time.

And to all the negative posts from people that are trying to shame me due to the decisions I made and make me out to have commercial tendencies…. Fuck you!

And guess what? The number one and number two questions someone always gets asked is what did you do and how much did it cost? I’m I wrong? I’m so sorry that I was trying to be thorough and proactively trying to answer the next questions I knew I would get asked if I didn’t include the information up front.

As stated in my original post. The number one thing I did was lose weight! This alone got me to the one yard line….. Everything else I did got me over the goal line…. That’s it! No sales pitch here!

No reason to get angry. You come to a place where guys are working for what you went and bought. Did you think that would be warmly received by all? What about the guys who can’t afford it? Too bad for them? Here we try to do things naturally so it’s against what this place stands for to just go by what you need.

Yeah, but did the needle go all the way inside or more like just below the skin ?

I think you might have things a little backwards. I don’t think this place is against spending money because God knows we all have. I think the reason so many are against this is because of the outcome that can happen. LIKE A BROKEN SOLDIER! Or deformed or whatever the outcome could be. Then you say what about the guys that can’t afford it? To bad for them? Sorry but if I can go pay cash for a lambo and you couldn’t does that mean I shouldnt? Because that’s the way I took it. I wouldn’t take a risk of doing a surgery or injecting anything into my penis in fear that I’m gonna be the one that would get damaged. I Can’t risk that knowing I only have I penis.

I think you completely missed the point.