Money or size

That’d be me.

I’m pissed because I posed the question and there WERE people who picked bigger dick over money. So if they felt shitty for that brief moment when people couldn’t BELIEVE that they picked dick size when “some men are focused on providing food for themselves and their families” and people are dying all over this world, then it’s my responsibility that they felt that way. It’s making whoever picked dick sound like they aren’t conscious about moral responsibilities and concerns. You never made ME feel crappy cause I don’t really care.

That’s the thing you didn’t just give an opinion you made a judgment on people who chose the size. If you said “money, i’ll donate to charity” and left it at that we’re good to go. But I heard that I have self image issues, a rant on what that money could be spent on, and that’s it’s “mind boggling” to “spend $100,000 on 1/4”“. I just find it funny that in these kinds of situations where the money is hypothetical it’s the time that you hear about charity and the down trodden the most. I rarely hear on these shows “deal or no deal” or “millionaire” or people who win the lottery about how ALL the money is going to be spent on charity, helping the homeless etc. I don’t think the people posting here are the only true selfless people in the world. I chose to keep $300,000 in this hypothetical scenario. I bet I probably would’ve donated to charity just as much as those who kept the full million cause they are crusaders for the underprivileged.

And my OPINION that it isn’t for selfish reasons is how I view it. All I care about in my sexual life is getting my girl off. I honestly don’t care if I ever cum during sex as long as it’s amazing to her. I heard people here say that they don’t care if they hurt the chick they just want a bigger dick. My ego tells me to go above 8” for ego and bragging rights. But I never want any bigger cause I want my girl to enjoy it. I DO view that a selfless because if I could magically have a huge dick I would turn it down. It would make ME feel amazing but I’m afraid it wouldn’t make my girl feel amazing. So you can’t really sit there and judge if it’s selfish or not. It’s how I view my PEing and desire to get a bigger dick. You’re opinion on my reasons are really irrelevant.

By the way, I don’t think Angelina Joile or Brad Pitt should alter their lifestyle. That’s my point. Do what you can, do your best. Don’t make anyone feel shitty for not doing more.

Fulfilling your desire to get your girl off is the fulfillment of a selfish desire because you intend to be part of that occasion.

Dude, here’s the thing, let it go and stop being pissed. Life is short and we’re all just playing grab-ass on a pee-pee bulletin board- you really can’t get much more superficial than that, can you?

No one was lecturing you on your failings or judging- they’re merely expressing where they are in their life with respect to such an inquiry.

Dude, don’t worry, be happy

Hey dude, that’s what I was hoping for a light-hearted conversation where someone could answer honestly with no negative responses towards someones choice. I didn’t take it there. I ask these questions with the guys all the time and we have a laugh at it. Nothing more. I thought I’d post here to see others responses. If morality was always brought into “would you?” or “what if?” then where’s the fun. I enjoyed thinking about what I really would spend and had fun with it. I’m VERY happy with life.

And as for your view of selfish, I think your way off. Of course there is always a case for feeling good about what you do. But I think that a guy who wants to learn to be an amazing cook so he can make great meals for his girl(even though he benefits) is not selfish. Or the guy who wants to take dance lessons with his girl cause she’s loves to dance and it would make her happy. Or the guy who wants to go down on his girl with no expectations of anything in return. Or the guy who wants to pleasure his girl in a way she never thought possible. That really doesn’t seem selfish to me. What would you call guy who doesn’t do any of that? Your definition of selfish is way too broad IMO and I don’t understand what would be considered selfless. I’ve been called the most unselfish lover ever(just her opinion). There’s a reason why she says that. So you can’t really call into question my motives and call it selfish. I think guys who want a big dick for ego even though it would hurt their girl ARE selfish. I wouldn’t do that to my girl. The two cannot be compared.

I’m not playing grab ass with this post. It’s just my opinion.

I’d keep most of it. Maybe I’d use a couple hundred grand for girth. Maybe.

OK, I posted what I posted knowing full well that feelings might be hurt. I did so not to offend but simply to remind guys of the point Hobby raised: That each and every one of us are members of the privileged few compared to most of the worlds population. I was ready and more than willing to take a few shots from people that felt I had stepped on toes.

If all of the snippy posts from crow had actually been addressed to my by name I would be like, "Crap! Enough already.", but I would still be staying out of the thread. Seriously, I have some weird psychosis where I will keep smiling while taking a beating but you take a swing at someone else and I feel responsible for trying to save you both.

You have perhaps heard the view that we are most likely to see obnoxious traits in others that we most dislike in our selves? I expect that you won’t want to see it this way so perhaps you should ask the other guys. which Monk are you?

Why would you think that any one is out to make you feel crappy? :(

Once again I will let the other guys be the judge on this. Where are the rants in this thread? ;)

Snobs plural. I was serious about what I wrote above. Address all of your complaints to a single individual and name me by name as that individual and I would have stayed out of the thread and been happy to let you blow off as much steam as you felt you needed to.

I do understand that you felt your thread was hijacked but nobody owns threads around here and that happens. I understand that you perhaps felt that the way in which it was hijacked, the interjection of a reminder of perspectives, made you somehow look bad. Not the intent and I took:

To mean that you were cool and flexible and able to roll with things. I miss read and based on that posted more of my version of kooky-ness. For that I do apologize; and, when i saw that it was a miss-read i got back out of the thread.

But what you are doing now is being interpreted by the guys as lashing out at all around and that my friend can only lead to problems for you. Let it go.

And just for the record I would purchase neither inches nor toys; I would invest the entire million. :rolleyes: Boring, I know.

Ya. I have and it does.

I have lived with indigenous peoples on three different continents as well as been in shanty towns, refugee camps and slums that make the worst of life in the USA look like Shangra-la. This is not the first time or place that I have attempted to shoe horn such perspectives into a conversation and offended. I have gotten very good at face to face getting people to think about helping others but online is always much trickier.

I am the bail out guy for when things go sideways to a number of hill people villages where I have friends. I sponsor students and buy playpumps.org every year and other stuff as well. When I go down off of the mountain and buy a month worth of supplies at Costco I am always well aware what the same money would do for people with out my standard of living.

Yep.

But I do concede, andro, that it might be easier for guys like us (in the 8x6 club) to say this. Would we feel the same if we were < 6” EL and < 5” girth???????

8*6? I’m not quite there yet, but I can see it from here ;)

But yes- I hear you- I couldn’t say how I would feel in that situation- I know I’ve thrown enough cash on PE products, most mediocre, some crap, some outstanding- that I can’t begrudge someone from throwing away grab-ass ducats at it on a fantasy hypothetical.

But is that because being a legit Magnum consumer has dulled the urgency of wee wee issues- or is it that barely having an ever shrinking pot to piss in a couple of weeks before the mid-life hill literally crests adds urgency to the money issues?

At 25 I knew that one day soon I’d have that million dollar payday in hand- all things pussy were the real concern

20 years later the ‘script’s been flipped’- as the kids say. Handfuls of ass but a lack-o-cash.

You could think the worst of me, doesn’t change who I am. No sweat. I didn’t mind that you wrote the first post actually. I would’ve let it go. But there was too much that got under my skin. I hit a breaking point. In real life if I was at a party and posed the question to the dudes and a guy went on about moral obligations we have with that money I would’ve walked away saying "wow, that dude is uptight and needs to relax and have fun". Same goes on this board. I’m all about moral discussions and such but this wasn’t a moral issue. I had the same feeling when I read all the arguments on morality as when I was at my kid’s party where they had a magician. He was bending a spoon and one of the dads said "ok then bend my spoon". It took the fun out of it. If you’re into SNL youtube "debbie downer".

I apologize for using the word snob. I was frustrated. But it was plural because there were more then one discussing morality…hobby, andro, mravg. And for the exact reason why YOU got involved was the same reason that I did. I was feeling bad because some people DID pick dick to MY question. Then people started going on about the morality of not taking the money. How it could be spent on so much more. I felt bad that THEIR character could’ve come into question. It was MY question posed so I felt an obligation to defend.

And as for "rants", I actually said rant if you read my post. And I was referring to Hobby’s post about feeding family and such. To clarify things.

I just have to say I actually don’t ill feelings for anybody here. I find posts by Hobby, andro, etc to be informative. I just didn’t like the way this thread was going and how some people could’ve felt about their answers. So I vented.

I am not quite 8” but am over 6 in girth and happy with what I have. Well, at least happy enough that I am not currently PEing to get more even though I know it works for me. Ideally I would like 8.5 but apparently not enough to work for it.

A real tricky version of this would be you have a “this day only” offer as to whether or not you want to spend any on your penis. And it is the same day that you learn of PE. That way you are aware of the potential but don’t know if it will work for you. Under those conditions I think I would still take all of the cash.

If PE didn’t exist or if I didn’t know of it when the offer was made I expect I would have spent some on my unit. I started on the large side of average but still I would have gone for a bit more.

Crow- please let it go?

Your objections are duly noted for the record, we all think you’re a wonderful person, all’s good- alright?

Let’s just consider it a flaw in a written medium that nuance which would be expressed verbally is lost in translation.

Nothing more will be accomplished.

Seriously. Please let it go.

Damn! You’re life story sounds like mine………..minus the “handfuls of ass.” :(

After my hellaciously brutal, shockingly bitter-assed divorce had WIPED ME OUT, I’ve been managing to (somewhat) crawl back from the grave. While my finances are not as grave as they were, say, 18 months ago, they’re still a far cry from that “million-dollar payday in hand” that I’d also anticipated in my youth.

Back in the day, I had more pussy than most gynecologists play with…and little cash, but the “Dream.” Now, the dream has been shit upon, the pussy is nowhere to be found (except the one at the end of my right arm), and I keep $truggling, $trugglin, $trugglin…….

Btw, I’m 43 now.

Life’s a damn bitch, ain’t it?

“Handfuls of ass” merely proves the old adage of ‘location, location, location’- in NYC, if you’re a 30- 40 something decent looking fit white guy with a full head of hair and a modicum of social graces, you can’t avoid the quality ass unless you-

A] pull one of my periodic hermit acts.
B] insist on confining your target market to <25 year old models
C] are interested in a long term relationship and have a portfolio <$10,000,000

Exceptions apply.

The nice thing about grown women is that they are conscious in their harlotry- it isn’t some adolescent experimentation or teenage rebellion- and women of our generation are anxious to try anal if they already haven’t.
They are interested in venturing into the abyss.

Actually at the first NYC Thunders meeting for some reason supersizeit thought I was you when I walked in the room- similar generic shaggy haired large-ish white boy ken doll type- based on some courtside pic you’d posted - although I understand you’re a tad taller than my 6’ even.

I was a noob here shortly after your tales of woe were the running soap here- stories of your mad jelqing sessions and young neighbor hotties were the order of the day.

Didn’t get any schadenfreude off your woes- but there was a bit of there but for the grace of… .

45 around the ides of March-
Never was a deadhead, but it certainly has been a long strange one.

Iamaru-

I don’t think it is that you offended anyone. It’s that your idea is just flat out dumb.

If you give away $1,000,000 to save those 1000 people, they will live on and have children. Then, we have to worry about 3000 more people to save, and will have to spend $3,000,000 to save them. Keep in mind we live half way across the world from these people.

Giving that $1,000,000 just makes the problem worse. It’s like throwing your money into a pit of fire. It will just make the fire grow bigger and in the end you will have no money.

Listen, I am all for helping needy people, to an extent, but in the end this world has always been based on the survival of the fittest. It’s the way the world was meant to be. Do I think that we should alter our economic policies to make their economic situations better? Yes. Do I think that we should try to save them from their inevitable suffering and disease that we have no control over? No, that is something they need to keep in mind when they have kids.

If those people know their kids are going to have a terrible and miserable life, then why would they have kids? I know I wouldn’t want to bring a child into that kind of world.

Welcome to the heart of darkness.

Why don’t we just ship all those tainted foodstuffs and toys over there and speed up the process.

Better, why don’t we use an ape lab in the Congo to develop oral polio vaccines and then let Africa rot under the weight of the AIDS pandemic.
Oh, wait- they already did that.

Survival of the fittest?
Almost half a millennium of european colonialism and exploitation that has gone to creating the foundation of the situation doesn’t carry any weight as to the western first world nations cleaning up the messes they left behind?

Dude- you fucking scare me- and I don’t think anyone would describe me as a softy.