I have a very basic question about how to measure BPEL. I have tried to find the answer in the forum, but either I’m stupid, or the question hasn’t been addressed. Specifically, when do you take the measurement?? I find that just before ejaculation, I gain some extra length. Is this the right measurement, or is the measurement done with an erection?? Also, is there any limitation on how hard to press with the ruler??
I know these are very basic questions, but if we are going to make comparison measurements, I would just like to be sure we are all on the same page.