Is This Normal? (Edging)

When I edge and I’ve reached that point where there is almost no return 4 to 5 times I usually get a moment where I’m not horny anymore and my dick gets less hard. Then I have to work my way up again.

My question was if you guys have this too and if this is normal or not?

I have that sometimes, it’s important to stay relaxed, because muscle and mental tension make you lose your erection when you’re building up towards an ejaculation.

I do stay relaxed, And I am able to reach the edge. But after 4 to 5 times I happen to lose hornyness and lose some erection. Then it takes a minute or two to build this up again.

Anyone?

Try to avoid any kind of kegel while edging, this way you will be able to maintain your maximum hardness without hitting the “point of no return”.

Yes, it happens to me as well. I can go about 5-10 times right to the edge and then I am too horny and can not get a 100% (only maybe 90-95%) erection for a while if I don’t want to ejaculate right away.

Happens to me every time.

I’m not using a kegel to try to prevent cumming.

So the more times you reach the edge the more horny you get? With me it’s actually after 4 to 5 times I lose my hornyness.

Anyone?

I’m mid-40s, and stuff like this happens all the time to me. Depends on how I’m edging, whether I’m using visuals (porn, which is rare) or in the shower in the morning (falling asleep) or I just get bored. My body tends to betray me if I abuse it too much, so I usually only edge 4-5 times and then either quit or finish.

I’d say this, though: If you start to lose interest, quit. Save it for next time. It’ll make jelqing/squeezing/etc better, and the next edge session will be that much more intense. My guess is you’re getting fatigued from over-fapping. That loss of interest is a PI, and you should listen to it. Drink a beer instead, watch a movie and don’t fret it.

- Saul

Seems like a legit answer. Thanks.

It occasionally happens to me too. No bid deal