Just throw on two condoms and fuck her senseless, then remove the condoms and fuck her until she’s unconscious. Works every time.
Bad idea. Latex on latex drastically increases the chance of breaking a condom. You can buy specific condoms that are thicker (Trojan prolonged pleasure I believe) if you want to decrease sensitivity.
Alcohol works well for me up to a certain point (then I find myself swinging a garden hose). So do distractions if you don’t mind temporarily removing yourself from the moment. Kegels and edging are important if you want to master control.
What worked best for me was switching up my masturbation habits. Previously I just beat it to porn fast and furiously until I blew. Now I no longer use porn and I always take my time. I would highly recommend trying this out. It helped me a lot.
You know this relationship better than anyone else so if it is worth it then I say do everything in your power to please her. There are plenty of other women out though :)