I need help.
Hi, I’m ollabac (horse spelled backwards in Spanish), and this will be my second time returning to this site for some serious workouts.
Last time I did PE, was around February ~ April 2010, and couldn’t really tell if things were working out for me, I’m also a Christian and was having SIGNIFICANT difficulty attempting to PE without being visually stimulated. I ended up quiting and spent the rest of the year pursuing other interest. I remembered this site a couple of days ago and thought about picking this up again since I’ve now got a steady girlfriend and would like for us to have an awesome sex life in the future.
Besides my inconsistency, the only issue I had with a strict PE regiment was the stimulation.Besides my Spiritual beliefs, I always found it problematic to watch pornography, I would feel as if I’m watching other people have all the fun and never really got the allure of the stuff.and not to mention that I live with other people, so my only option is stealth PE during my bath at night! I have tried thinking about women while doing PE, but it just comes down as an immoral act to me..
My question is: Are there any men among us that maybe face the same situation? Any married men that feel it is disrespectful to their wives and children if they watch nude women and masturbate to someone who you do not love? If so, how do you PE without the visual aspect? I just got out of a botched PE session because I could not keep it up during my training.I started out with a good jelq session that rapidly faded since my mind just can’t seem to bring up perverse images.I usually see my girlfriend smiling at me, I get Spiritual thoughts or good times with friends and family.you know, happy thoughts, but when it comes to thinking about naked women, or sex (I’ve been celibate for going 2 years now) they just fade away, along with my boner!