I need help getting aroused

Hah, strange topic, I know, but I have no tv to watch porno on and I don’t like to download that stuff. I can’t find my imagination working too well lately. This sucks when I want to PE. I have an undescended testicle and I think that may contribute to my lack of horniness. I am still a mess. Any advice?

A one handed magazine to the rescue as we call them around my way.

PE in a womens underwear section?

I’m in trouble now. :)

A mag is easy to hide. If you are so paranoid about porn on your PC. I would suggest buying a Dvd for the PC. You could also hit up a free web page of pics from one of 2 jillion sites just for that. If you lived in my neck of the woods, I would just give you one of my old working, yet good TV sets. A VCR/DVD combo player is dirt cheap.

Just shitting out ideas my friend. I have no idea on that stubborn nut, I am not a medic.

What’s wrong with internet porn? Print off a hott woman or something.

If he does that. I suggest getting a cook book cover to ward off splashing. A big photo album would work too.

Maybe you are depressed? When I was blue, I didn’t feel like flogging the bishop for heresy. A simple solution is just exercise. That gets all the blood pumping and such.

Yeah, I agree with TT, some regular exercise will likely boost your spirits and your sex drive.

Joining the gym was the most uplifting thing I have ever done, even though I didnt think I could do it… I thought I was too lazy. But it is great - gives you a great feeling of well-being.

Ah, I’ve been having my whiskey heart bleeding. Spent my saturday with a woman. No sex, but hrmp, I got so many thoughts going on in my head now trying to figure things out.

She’s 4’11”. Do you think size would matter to her? Still intoxicated.

Size matters to everyone. Some prefer big, some prefer really big.

For arousal, become an ornithologist. Bird watching can be fun.

I just thought maybe since she we’re smaller that bigger might hurt her. So I might be the right size for her. Probably not.

My ex gf was 5’ and she said my size is perfect for her. I’m the same size as you but with 4.75” EG. She had a guy who was 7 inches and said at full penetration it hurt because he was hitting her cervix. I would say 6.5” would be perfect for her which really got me into PE the first place. As long as your good in bed, I don’t really think it matters that much. I was the best compared to her past guys which kept her wanting more. From what women tell me, they say size doesn’t matter to their boyfriend but they do gossip about size within their girlfriends

toms,

>I just thought maybe since she we’re smaller that bigger might hurt her. So I might be the right size for her. Probably not.<

I guess it’s different for every girl, and it’s natural for you to want to make a good impression on your girl, but I think this is a bad headspace for you to be in. For PE, we have said ‘do it for yourself’, and you’ll find that phrase a lot as you read through old posts. You might already be sick of it, but it has merit, by ‘yourself’ I think we generally mean the inner sense of confidence we get from losing an insecurity.

You can’t change your size in a few minutes so these thoughts of whether you are the right size for someone else are futile. Focus on something else, like how much YOU are going to enjoy it!

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