Getting aroused too quickly
I’ve noticed that when my girlfriend decides to be spontaneous and just push my against the wall and go down on me, the overwhelming arousal makes me 100% erect in like 20 seconds and even before I get to a 100% erection, I sometimes come because of the sensation. Sometimes when it starts off slower, I tend to hold out longer but anytime any sort of sexual activity begins, I’m hard in under a minute and I get very sensitive. Are there ways to control the process of becoming erect when I’m being stimulated? I think if I am able to control this and slow down the erection process, I will not have to worry about become overly sensitive at times.
Also, here’s a question I’ve been wondering.. How come I will come super quickly when I am having a “wet dream”? I could recall in a few dreams, in a matter of seconds I will wake up and not even have an erection and have that lovely sticky wet spot. What are the reasons behind this?
Thanks, I’m trying to learn more about how my body works.. I think some guys just take for granted that this extention exists and they don’t know how it even works.