Hair and PE

I am rather hairy in the crotch area and jelqing gets somewhat irritating after a while. I trimmed it back short the other day which works fine but my wife was quite upset. She said it was very prickly for her and distracting, making it hard to enjoy sex. Not to mention she really likes my “long curls” as she puts it (bless her heart).

So I’m in a dilemma, I don’t like getting irritated by the hair but having my wife not enjoying sex or not wanting to have it because it irritates her is out of the question.

I tried cutting a small hole in a pair of underwear when jelqing but the hair gets pulled through after a while so thats no solution. I have thought about shaving completely but don’t know if thats a major hassle, would I have to shave every day so it stays smooth for the wife? I would like to hear from anyone who shaves. What about Nair or other hair removers?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

This is a tough one. I like your idea of jelqing through underware—although it sounds really messy. I suppose you could try taping back your pubic hair behind the underwear (or better yet, a hand towel). But then there’s the issue of removing the tape.

Have you tried jelqing while wearing a condom? Roll the condom on as far as possible, to cover the hair at the base of your penis. That will prevent pulling that hair directly during jelqing. Of course, you’ll have to be careful not to pull off the condom.

I tried waxing many years ago. It does a great job of removing the slightest trace of hair, but the hair will grow back and eventually you will get nubs. It’s also rather painful, until you get used to it (after which it’s actually not bad).

Well my best advice is to shaved completely bald. I love shaving my pubes and I have been doing it for years now. Yes it does grow back but as far as the pricks go during sex my girl never says it hurts when it is growing back. I usually shave once a week cock & balls. Once you go bald you will never grow back that bush that that covers up so much of your cock.

Shaving off the hair completely gives you that longer look flaccid and erect plus the wife will love it looking thicker and longer for her to make use of it. Being shaved has always helped me with getting head in the single life, plus my girl of a year now loves the fact that when she does give me head that she doesn’t have some bushy pubes brushing against her face as she goes down on it.

The other option is using something like vaseline to matt down the hair. I don’t know anything about PEing, I just discovered this forum last night, but when doing castings of molds of the penis, that’s what you do to stop the hair from messing up the mold.

ModestoMan

Your right, the underwear idea did get messy. I would think with the condom I would end up going too limp for good jelqing since it reduces sensation, what’s your experience? Have you tried this idea?

squashdzl

Although I have not shaved I do like the idea. How long does it take before you get stubble. I have to shave the face every other day to keep it smooth?, she likes the face smooth as well. Have you every nicked the little guy? Does it get itchy as it grows back? I would think between balls legs and penis all that rubbing on stubble would drive me nuts.

I used to shave it completely bald once or twice a week, but my girlfriend also complained about the fact that she would become sore. Now I’ve started to just shave my balls and a small line just above the cock completely, while trimming the rest of the area with scissors. That way I prevent from being so hard and prickly. My girlfriend hasn’t complained since.

What do you use to shave? Like lotion and just a normal shaver or what?

Use hair bands or plait it !

I shave twice a week with shaving cream and my trusty Atra. Throughout the week, I use one of those Microtouch trimmers just for touchups. I do about a five-minute hot wrap before shaving though, and then shave in the shower.

I haven’t tried using a condom while jelqing. On second thought it actually sounds problematic—too easy to pull off. For me, the only problem hair is right at the base. I’ve tried shaving that hair and it did help, but those nubs!

You can try a compromise. If you trim the only the hair at the base to 1/4” (1/2 cm) it may be much less irritating while jelqing, while at the same time not too spiny during sex.

I say shave the base and the balls, bald, leaving a patch above neatly trimmed. I love it like that.looks really clean & neat; and although the ladies may not admit it all the times, I think they like it too. I wouldn’t want to go down on a hairy girl, so why should I expect a girl to go down on my hairiness.

It’s a little itchy for the first few days, but you get used to it. And I don’t have to shave that often, ever few weeks, more if I don’t want any stubble.

Go for it.

I just trim my pubes down to maybe 3/4 of an inch long tops, using a barbershop style set of clippers with one of those plastic attachments.

Anything under 1/4 will be prickly, especially if you have darker or coarse pubic hair. Yeah, most women don’t like to feel like they are banging a piece of sandpaper.

I can’t endure the “bald” look. Maybe it’s a cross between the visual making my unit look like it needs to be back in a diaper, or the fact that I detest any cover model who waxes his body clean to show definition. But then, I’m not into chicks shaved clean, either. I like it when they leave that little “Hitler” above the love nest.

I just don’t feel right about drinking a beer with any dude whom shaves his ass clean. But that’s just me.

Shave, don’t shave, shave, don’t shave, shave, don’t shave. I cant tell you all how many times I went through this until I finally said, ” Hey, in case you hadn’t thought about it, it will grow back if you don’t like it!” duh

So, I clear cut the forest to the ground, and so far its great, aside from the slightly raw feel of the first time shaving. Right away the sex is better, I can feel her juices on my skin and there is more sensation on my balls, rather than a soggy mat of hair. She likes sex better too and says shes intrigued by it. Hey, her thinking about my cock more often is definitely a good thing in my mind. And PEing shaved is like night and day, way, way better.

Oscar Mayer - I had my reservation about the shaved look as well, but better sex and easy PEing, I’ll take it. I tried the short clip but the wife really complained during sex, cant have that. Guess we wont be having any beers in the near future.

Good Choice.

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