Girlfriend thinks I'm nuts
I am a new poster, long time lurker, and only now have I “got involved” (posting stats). I just have one issue that hasn’t been discussed very often and I needed some insight:
The woman I am living with not only doesn’t like the idea of me doing PE (she has walked in on me doing it several times), she uses it as a sign that I’m not committed to the relationship and I’m getting my member primed and ready for the next gal.
My defense of the contrary was a disaster.. When I told her that I was doing it to keep her interest, she got all indignant and yelled “Oh! So you think I’m gonna just cheat on you.” “I’m a slut?” yadda yadda..
I am under the impression that I can do PE without having any ulterior motives. My body is a temple to house my brain, and I need it in prime condition, which is why I exercise. My penis is part of my body, thus it needs exercise. This explanation offers no resolve either..
Has anyone successfully convinced their mate not to be threatened by their interest in PE? Does anyone have mates who are happy with their PE’ing?