Gf Of 18 Months

Do I dig into fat pad because when I do with thumb it feels like my thumb can go deeper because of a groove type whole sorry this is all new to me and have never done this before sorry for been such a novice here

Pull yourself together mate.
You’ll find all the support and advice you need to get you past this right here.
Don’t lose the girl of your dreams for a creation of your mind.
When I was prejacking (under a minute from touchdown to blastoff) I somehow found this place while cruising for an answer.. Learned about edging and eliminated the problem and then some. Now I go until I decide to blow.
Solid oral skills and the new longer-lasting you via edging will keep her where I like to keep my girls.. In the “O-zone”. Trust SVP on this one.. Do the work and you will own that sweet lil’ JJ for as long as you desire.

Don’t give up.. There are a shit ton of experienced fellas here to help get you on the other side of this.

Have faith,
SVP

I hadn’t read the whole thread to this point when I posted the above.. But the advice you got from Bri and Oz is solid stuff.

Be unwavering in this quest.. And fate will do the rest.

We will help you get there.

Peace,
SVP

.. And:

Perhaps you should consider changing your handle to: Unbreakableguy78

Positive thoughts.. Positive self image.. Positive results.

You’re a sex machine bro.
You just don’t believe that yet.
Stay the course and you will though.
You have my word.. I know it’s true.. I was you not very long ago.

Good luck Mr. O Meister,
SVP

Sir vics plunger

Thank you very much indeed you guys are brilliant people believe me

Your responses are in full detail

I have the power n faith to get there I know it’s there I’m just a little busted for the moment

Id be truly appreciative if could blow when I wanted jeez

That would be a gift on its own

I will look into how to go about this now it’s a very good start thank you to you all brothers

I know you can do this bro.

Stop repeating that you are busted.. And start believing you have found the right medicine and are already on the mend.

Start the newbie routine.
Learn about edging.
Be patient with yourself and don’t beat yourself up if things don’t proceed fast enough for some pre-determined expectation in your mind.. You can’t have it both ways!
One cannot expect the cure for coming quickly to come quickly!
Grow your cock and your stamina at the same time.. They work together.

In the meantime, show that angel of yours how much you love her every day.

Additionally, remember that orgasms lead to more orgasms. Pleasure her with your face. Love that sweet little lunchbox intimately. Kiss it passionately. Lick it like your favorite flavored Ice cream cone. I’m not saying you don’t, but I can’t remember any woman that wouldn’t come in my mouth repeatedly with consistent effort on my part. Once their body gets into that mode, other sources of potential orgasm (penis-in-vagina for instance) are suddenly primed to deliver the goods.
I used to pump my ex for under a minute and be done (we were not exactly happily married). I thought I was washed up sexually.
Now, my girls come until they’re exhausted, and if I feel like it I’ll give them a mouth or assfull of the good stuff to put them to bed with. They sleep like angels on cloud nine when I do. I don’t like to come too much.. But I do love that look on their beautiful faces when they get their sleep medicine straight from the spigot.. Hot and freshly made for them. Knocks ‘em out like a hammer to the head.. But without any bruising so the next day they can get up and get back to work!

Good luck,
SVP

Thankyou very much everyone for all advice 😁

Now no more posting negative

So where would I find best program/info on PE

Will kegal work for all or some

I’d rather do this without the help of any enhancements ect as I cannot use them discreetly at home

So it will be kegal exercises and whatever else I can do

I will be measuring later this evening so I have a baseline to work from so any pointers on how I do kegals properly or any help on anything I will stick to as it should be thanks people you’ve now gave me great hope for the future

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Let the games begin!
good luck my friend.
SVP

Oh yes getting started ASAP thanks for the drive

Hey BrokenGuy, along with everything the others have said, you can’t place too much into what size a girl thinks your or any other man’s penis is. I recently started dating the girl of my dreams (been her best friend for years) and we openly talked about previous sexual partners the other day. She was pretty “wild” earlier in life and slept with a lot of guys, claiming she had been guys who were “Huge”, one who was supposedly 12 inches in length (I laughed honestly) and an Asian guy who was 3 inches (erect). We were laying in bed later and on that same topic she said she felt like most guys are about 8 inches in length; I was like jeeeez, this girl either has terrible measurement perception or she’s an anomaly whos been with tons of well-endowed males.

At first, I felt a little insecure, intimidated, and even depressed because I’ve been with 7 girls before her and they all said I was “Huge” (which I’m really not, I’m about 7.5” BPEL and 5.6” EG). I think we all have this odd ego complex and like the idea of being “the biggest” with the girl we are with, but I realized how unhealthy that train of thought is, especially with girls who are more promiscuous; inevitably, somebody they sleep with will have been “bigger” unless you’re the top 5% in penis size.

Nevertheless, her and I had got intimate for the first time and I went down on her and made her orgasm (literally I’ve never seen or made a girl so wet in my life); I started kissing her after and asked her “Was that good?” and she goes, “Uhhh that was AMAZING!” She had a sore throat though and said she wanted to reciprocate and give me a BJ but that it would hurt, so she just gave me a handjob. After getting erect I pulled my penis out and she didn’t say anything or even really look down at it, so I said “Does it feel like it will do the job?” And she goes, “What do you mean?” I followed up, “My penis?” She responds, “Are you kidding? I’ll cum in like 2 seconds with that” That made me feel a little better, but still a little insecure admittedly.

After awhile though I realized theres a lot more to life and love than having a big penis, and girls really, for the most part, DO NOT CARE if you have a large penis (and in some cases, being big is bad because its painful for them.. Which has happened with me even). Her and I really connect and frankly I’m sure when we have sex the last thing on her mind is going to be the size of my penis. There are plenty of ways to pleasure your lover, even without penetration, and regardless of your size you can make her feel good.

Moreover, your penis is plenty big to make a girl orgasm with the right position and flow. In my experience, girls will cum from even modest penetration with the right stimulation.

She has four children with someone else? Plus she wants to get married, after eighteen months? Red flag. Why does she want to get married so fast? You are 35, is she of the same age?

Something is not adding up in this story and seems way off base. All of what you have posted so far sends red flags to me. You did not even mention if you want to marry this chick, yet you went so quickly to assert she wants to marry you.

She probably does not care at all about the size of your dick or having sex with you in general. What do you mean by a long time to cum/orgasm? Women who are really into their lover do not take a long time to cum. She either has not told you what she wants in bed to get her off or you are not performing the tasks she needs to get off, in both cases the sex is not good sex and ruins what should be a healthy aspect of a relationship.

I would get out of this relationship, she is not the one for you. You said so in one of your earlier posts, let her go. You will find a better relationship with someone else. It is the smartest thing you could do.

1. Give this relationship a serious amount of thought, really grind into the worth of this companionship.
2. Do as the others have said, work on your insecurities. After all you are going to be a semi father figure in the lives of four children, think about this.
3. Good luck with PE. This is the best place to learn and improve.

I’ve only read through the thread quickly, but I can say one thing, it sounds like you’re poisoning yourself with your thoughts. Dick size doesn’t matter. I’m almost at 9 inches and my wife left me. I’m good in bed and could make her cum almost on command, but still, she left me. She was toxic to me, so I don’t mind her leaving. There are plenty of other women out there. But it sounds like you really love her, and that you want the best for her, so become the best for her. If you don’t like something, then only you have the power to change it. If you don’t know how, then ask. Here at TP there’s more knowledge than you could consume in one sitting, and change takes time. Believe me.

I hate to say it and I try to avoid being this guy, but it sounds like this other guy she was with left her in the dust with 4 kids and she realized she needs someone to support her and take care of her children. Don’t become a provider for a girl that doesn’t even really wanna be with you dude, you should be really feeling the affection and support from her and she shouldn’t be doing or saying thats make you feel bad about yourself. The fact thats she’s pushing to get married so quickly is definitely a red flag, find someone that appreciates you for you and not for what you can do for her.

Now of course theres a chance that this isn’t the situation at all and she’s a great girl that will never treat you wrong, but these are just my 2 cents.

Fuck it I left her

Had good think and she’s my best friend of 20 years nothing’s going right

Probably for the best man, you can find plenty of quality women out there who don’t have a past like hers