Gf Of 18 Months

My gf of 18 months reveals (my fault for asking ). It her ex partner of 15 years whom she has 4 children to has a big thick 9 inch cock

I’ve never measured myself because of incorrect measurements

But I’m no where near that and my girth is thin to me

But I’m the one she wants to marry

I think I’m 5 inch and thin and circumcised

First off: don’t rely on women’s size estimates. My gf thought I was 9” although I’m 7”.

Also don’t beat yourself up over an ex of hers. She chose to leave him and be with you for a reason.

Penis size obviously isn’t everything but since you’re already here you have found the tools to increase yours.

I recommend taking accurate BPEL and EG measurements though so you can track your progress.

Not knowing if you have started already or plan to but the newbie routine is the way to go.

Btw being circumcised should not be a negative. In the US it is the norm and no one minds my circumcised dick here in germany either.

I’m deeply heartbroken because she’s my best friend of many years

She says sex with ex hurt

I’ve now gone even worse through anxiety and started premature ejaculation

She says there’s nothing wrong with me but she can take a very long time to orgasm/cum

I’m broken inside and out

Mentally drained with it all and the most stupid thing I could do is end it with her

But I’m considering it

And letting her move on with the right guy who she can have a proper sexual life with.

That doesn’t sound like his dick was better at all.

Most girls don’t orgasm at all from penetration alone. I haven’t managed that with my gf yet so if you have, congrats.

Don’t give up here. She wants to marry you. You love her. You both have orgasmic sex. It’s all good.
Ending it with her because of that would be like giving up on women alltogether and living a life of misery.
I’m sure yours isn’t acutually THAT small. 5” NBPEL isn’t exactly tiny. Learn to work with what you have and how to make it bigger, but don’t give up on love because of some insecurity.

Thanks brainhans

I’m searching web to see how to accurately measure myself

I’m looking at buying a tape so can exactly measure my girth also that’s my biggest worry tbh more length would be amazing but girth would be great just feels tiny to me that I try to not touch if I can

Plus flaccid is worse it’s hiddeous

Brainhans

She is very petite

Uber sexy gets lots of male attention but has no interest I’m the one who he said has treated her the way she supposed to be treated and I do treat her very well I have to say that I treat her with respect at all times and I’ve been honest

But she gets angry because I feel so low bout myself

We usually measure bone pressed erect length here (BPEL) because it is the most consistent and exact way to measure and it represents insertable length.

At 100% erection hold your penis perpendicular to your body, lay a ruler on top and press it into your fat pad.

To measure girth, if you don’t have a tape measure, you could take a strip of paper, wrap it around your unit and mark where it overlaps, then measure that with a ruler.

Many men are growers so their flaccids appear rather small. Flaccid size is one of the first things that go up with PE for many.

Also trimming and losing weight make a big difference.

She sounds like a keeper (and a hottie ;) )

I have in past tried to do kegal I haven’t got a clue in what I’m doing and only place I can do it it is in shower

Right now she’s dealing with your insecurities,
but that will not last for long given she’s already
becoming angry with you about it.

To put it another way, your in effect telling her
that she’s not into you despite her saying otherwise.

Without sounding like a bastard, stop doubting her, man up
and treat her the way she’s already acknowledged you had been.

Confidence is EVERYTHING !

Exercise the muscles that let you stop the flow of urine. Locate the muscles (between the scrotum and the anus) and the sensation when taking a piss and repeat this contraction. Learn to hold the contractions for a few seconds, then release. Frequent exercise should contribute to erection quality and control but don’t overdo it. The muscles should not be tight all the time.

Edit: And listen to Oz.

Thank you for so much input my friend

I will do this later today and is it ok to post measurements on here ?

My fiancé said she Will measure with me but I won’t Tell her I’m on here or whatever or courses I try

I’m quiet slim but have gained a bit of a belly been honest in past several months

I’m 35 years old and weigh approximately 10.5 stone

Thank you oz and brainhans I do appreciate everything and will take on board everything that is given

Absolutely.

No worries, wish you the best :)

Thank you ever so much guys really appreciate all your time and input