Erection Achievement Question
I’m almost 50 years old, and after wasting most of my life, I’m finally going to delve into PE. I’ve familiarized myself with the Newbie Routine, but have some concerns.
In order to jelq efficiently and correctly, one must attain an erection level of around 80%. Here’s the kicker: when I get a nocturnal erection, it is rock hard. At times, I have trouble reaching that level during sex with my wife, and often start softening up somewhat before I’m done. The big problem is that I have trouble achieving an erection during solo stimulation. I can thrash around on it all I want in the shower, and might get a semi-erection for my efforts.
How am I supposed to jelq in this situation? I’m assuming that it is a mental block, since I could “cut diamonds” right after REM sleep. Thanks!