Decided to start the thread.
Hi everybody! My name is Turnau, and first of all I wanted to say this is a great forum. Lots of good info here, but time to stop being a lurker.
I started doing P.E. Since like 10 months ago and the results are visible and I am happy with my current size, although bigger unit will bring me even more happiness. I got to the point where I got lazy and stopped making any progress, but as soon as I started increasing the workout time (weekly about 30 second to the length and girth program, 1 min to the kegels) , gains followed right after.
There is just one big problem I have been dealing with since as long as I remember.and it is *drums* .. The premature ejaculation. It’s very, very disappointing to me that I am 26 years old and haven’t had satisfying sex intercourse.yet :( . When a girl (at the night club or a house party) comes and says that she didn’t have sex in a couple of months, and wants me to do it with her, I always have to make some stupid excuse cause.I just can’t do it. I want it bad.. Sadly, can not have it.
Now I have been seeing that chick since 14 months ago and at the beginning I had to always say “no” when she wanted to have sex. After 3-4 months she started to laugh at me because of my “disability” , which was very damaging for me, especially after how she mention few times about how her ex boyfriends were good at it. Month or two later she wanted me to have a threesome with her (male) friend :( . I flipped out and said she can go to hell and wanted to break up.Somehow we are still together.
I learned how to make her scream with my tongue and my fingers (especially a thumb) , but after she lets me touch her again (I can’t touch her after the orgasm for a while) she wants to have sex, bad.
I bought some special cream that makes the penis feel somewhat cold, hot and numb at the same time, and it helps but not that much, not how I want it to be. I still keep penetrating her at very slow paste (about 1.5 second in and 1.5 out) and not for too long , cause it takes like 1~5 min before I “finish”. She keep complain that she wants faster, and I know it should be. When I start kissing her during sex, I can ejaculate even sooner.
I keep trying to find a solution for this nightmare, but no success so far. We have got to the point where she said she don’t need to have sex with me, and she loves me no matter what, although if she is horny, there is same thing going on.she wants sex! And I understand that, cause I also want it.
Now about my penis sensitivity:
When I am taking a shower and point the water flow onto the tip of my glans and stay in this position, I get that pleasant and numb feeling , but if I wait 15 seconds or so, I start to urinate. It’s very hard to keep pouring water over my glans cause besides that great feeling, there is uncomfortable one that makes me to stop after 20-30sec.
Also I have noticed that is impossible for me not to kegel during sex. As soon as I start sliding in, my penis keeps kegeling, and when I stop (still being inside the vagina) and try to regain control over the muscle, I keep getting something that it’s kind of similar to having a hiccup, except inside my BC muscle and it occurs 3-5 times per second.
Sounds like a very weak pelvic floor muscles and very sensitive penis to me, but maybe there is something else that makes me keep doing this? When I am “performing” starts and stops in the toilet, I can stop the flow easy, but almost stopping it is impossible and I end up either pissing with a normal flow or stopping it all.
Is it possible to decrease the urine flow without completely stopping it using BC muscles?
My kegel routine is 3 minutes daily (I keep increasing 1 minute every week) right after the length and girth workout. The exercises I’m using are towel raise, kegel cramp and kegel slams. As you all see I wasn’t doing them for too long :/ .
Jerking off before the intercourse helps, but not that much. Is there anything I can do to stop making my life miserable? Thank
S in advance.
Ps: I’m sorry about my poor English.