Davey Cockett - The Fat PE'er
Hi y’all, I’m hoping to keep up with PE and become a regular here. I’ve been hitting the “register” button for over a month trying to get in, I’m glad they finally opened up the forum registration again.
The search option is not available when not a member so I’ve got a lot of searching to do.
I’ve become a fat man in the last 4 yrs or so and let me just say Fat guys have it hard. Not only are we ugly when naked but many of us, like myself, have this insanely huge fat pad around the dick. My fat pad is probably 1.75+ inches think. Try shaving off a good 2 inches off your visible flaccid length every time you go into the locker room and see how much fun it is to walk around like that :) . My flaccid hang, as is, is probably not up to par anyway. I’ve found it to be so variable that I havent even bothered to measure the flaccid length cause it’d mean nothing right now.
The fat pad also hinders BPEL measurement! My best BPEL estimate right now is about 6.25 in. This unfortunately also seems pretty variable depending on how much I push the ruler in and where I place the ruler. It varies from 6-6.75 inches really. From the side of the penis it seems to give me a measurement near 6.75 to 7in.. Measuring on the top of the penis it seems less. Anyway, what a pain. Many years ago I can remember dick BPEL measurements consistently between 6.5-6.75 inches.
Before I got fat the sex life was much better. The wife and I usually had orgasms together etc.. Now, not only does the fat pad decrease my effective dick size, but my bulging stomach also gets in the way of doing certain positions with the ease that we used to. Needless to say, I’m much less effective in bed.
I’m pretty sure I’ve also just become generally less healthy as well. The erections arent as hard, and stamina is down. Ideally working out will help all that out, but I’ve noticed when I work my body out hard the dick loves to turtle. I hate that. It seems any sort of discomfort I get the dick loves to go into hiding. I’ve read around here that many think that’s something you want to avoid.
Another problem with the fat is that PE is harder to do as well, particularly Jelqs. The fat pad makes the skin not stick to my body as much as it used to, so it’s hard to get a good grip on the bottom of the dick to start off the jelq stroke.
Obviously my strategy is to work on both weight-loss and dick gain. Losing weight itself will greatly help the old sex life, but I want to have quite a bit a gaining as well. I’d like to have better sex and satisfy more than ever. I’ve noticed a huge work-out motivator is just watching porn or even cinemax stuff. I’m sure on some level I may have let myself get fat from being lazy because there was no prospect of different women to seduce. Regardless, the wife is beautiful enough that I should keep myself up just for her and it will make both our lives more enjoyable.
Anyway, If any Fat or previously Fat PE’ers could give me some tips, I’d be appreciative. Besides that, I’ll be doing a lot o searches.