Why do men continue to push their wives/girlfriends for comparisons with ex’s?? This is definitely one instance in which ignorance is bliss.
Who cares what her past lovers were packing? They’re not in the picture now.
Although these thoughts cross every man’s mind, big and small alike, it it best left at that. A thought - that should never be verbalised. Never never never never. Sorry - had to emphasize that. It is just plain wrong on so many levels. For one thing, you’ll be seen as very insecure. And insecurity in the bedroom is not an option for any man.
sam1966 - I would drop the issue with your wife. Just move on. I will say one thing however - she could have lied and spared your feelings. My ex-girlfriend would always ask me if she had gained weight, and even if she had I would always lie and tell her that she was gorgeous. In one way I was lying because her weight did fluctuate at times, but in another way I was being authentic as I did truly love her and think she was gorgeous, no matter what her weight.
There’s much more to being a real man than having a big unit. But of course a big unit can’t hurt, and that’s why we’re all here.