Considering Enlargment Surgery
Hello. I am brand new to thunders place. I want to start by thanking everyone for all your posts and shared wisdom, it’s truly encouraging.
Let me start by giving some background. I am 34, 5-11, reasonably fit, been told I’m attractive, have a good paying job, and packing 4x3.75. I’ve known I was small since elementary school when I saw my best friend changing after a track meet. I though he was huge! Turns out he’s average and I’m small. My first girlfriend in high school had sex with me a couple times and quickly dumped me telling the entire school I could never please her and was small. Needless to say girls weren’t interested in me after that. I managed to get with another girl who hadn’t heard the rumor (truth) and she also told me she couldn’t feel it and moved on. My ex wife of 7 years never had a single orgasm during our marriage. I actually never gave a girl an orgasm until I was 29. My size has haunted me my entire life. I’ve been to counseling and have worked on accepting myself with great success. I love myself and who I am, I just would really more in this department and truly feel it would greatly boost my confidence and help curd the constant insecurities I battle almost daily. My current girlfriend is a total sweetheart and truly loves me the way I am, but I’m considering this for me, my confidence, and my own pleasure. She would benefit of course but it’s primarily for me. Sex is not as enjoyable as I think it would be if I were bigger. I know there are risks associated with the Dr elist procedure but to be perfectly honest the risk is worth the reward to me. I can’t think of a reason good enough for me not to do this. Any other methods aside from this to attempt to enlarge will not yield the results I’m looking for.
My question is how do I talk to my girlfriend about this? We have sex regularly but I know and she knows I’m small, we just haven’t talked about it. It doesn’t help that she is drop dead gorgeous and has dated several large athletic men before me. I don’t want to set something in motion in her mind that could be toxic to our relationship but this is also very very important to me. Any input, do’s and fonts, would be very much appreciated.