Blowjob Help

It really depends on what you put forth too. Some guys just can’t get off from blowjobs. I on the other hand, have complete control on whether or not I do.

LOL really? Hmm I bet the frustration is the same as those who cum too early. Hehe

multiple,

>LOL really? Hmm I bet the frustration is the same as those who cum too early. Hehe<

I haven’t experienced the other side of the spectrum but I guess it’s the same. People who can’t come wish they would and people who come prematurely wish they couldn’t.

SS4

I think you need to concentrate on trying to relax, focus on your slow deep breaths, do not tense any mucles, and try lying on your back while she does it. I assume you might have this problem during actual intercourse as well?? If so, these will help that too.

Or she just too damn good at it, in which case I should drop by to confirm this myth and then all 3 of us could work it out together :)

I never had sex before hehe.

Aaahhh yes, the Lovey Howel routine. Been there, done that.

Don’t count your tossing off so lightly!

It has to count for something, right?

Multiple,

Just talk to her…let her know you are getting close. Mix instruction in with appreciation like…god that feels great…baby slow down, I’m getting close!

If she doesn’t slow down, or even speeds up…you can assume she wants you to cum…and enjoy yourself guilt free.

If on the other hand, if you let her know you are getting close to cumming, and she slows down…you know she wants you to last longer. So let her know when you are getting close, and have her stop or slow down until you get it under control again. Keep doing that and you will find at a certain point the urgency passes and you can last a long time if you want.

Its very much like edging…but better :) !

Its all part of learning how to master your response, very worthwhile because it will help you to be a great lover.

Sparkyx

It is sad to say that I can nerver come from a blow job alone in my entire life, a blow job plus a nice hand job with a pretty face would be easier for me, but still it takes me at least 15 minutes.

Luckyly I have a pretty face girlfriend living with me. :-)

Then you agree with me that it is a very effective way to hold your orgasm back?

I’m another one who has never come from a blowjob even though I actually try to get to that stage. It’s weird though because I come so damn quickly from intercourse. I wish it was the other way around!

20 minute blow job? Really? I would die for one of those. We usually have moved on to other things way before 20 minutes.

Is it really possible to cum too fast getting head? Most chicks are either after the grand prize (cum) or just want to get it over with. I go a lot quicker with a bj because it is rare and my wife can suck dick like a porn star. Then I go to work on her.

I didn’t read in your original post that she really had a problem with it. If not, just enjoy it and blast away.

I too have trouble coming from a blow job. Mainly because my wife gives a blowjob like she gives head. She sucks at it, licks it, rubs it, licks it. And if I’m going to get off from a blow job I need more of the handjob aspect of it and less of the licking and sucking part of it. She will work me up to the peak and then stop and change positions and then I have to start all over again.

Furthermore, Kegels didnt work for me to hold off ejaculation, just the opposite. I had uncontrollable kegels and blew my load too quickly. If you want to extend your sessions try edging.

Good luck

Here is a little advice for those who have trouble cumming with a BJ. I know because I have only shot in a girl’s mouth once. First, she has to know what she is doing and that means you might have to tell her. Just use good tact. Second, it is helpful if you work up to it. (forgive the vulgarity) Try tit F_cking, ie: Pearl Necklace. When you know you’re getting close, change positions or adjust so she can take you in her mouth. Best damn feeling is when she sucks after you cum. (I hope that wasn’t too dirty).

Exactly the same here. I’ve never come from a BJ unless the girl throws in a lot of good hand movement too.