Whats wrong with me
Ok, I don’t understand my penis/body sometimes.
Typically, my wife and I have sex maybe 1-2 times a week, but we have changed our pattern and our intent on doing it every night or at least 5 times a week.
Sometimes, I have noticed, that my dick just doesn’t want to get ‘hard’, especially if we had sex the previous night.
In our case, we are also trying to have a baby. Well, I typically can get hard before we even get to foreplay, but the last 2 nights, I have been pretty much a limp noodle and it takes ALOT of work for me to get rigid. Once we are having sex, it stays hard, but has been slightly on the limp / hard side.
Well, tonight, we got in an argument about me not initiating sex enough (which IS my fault), and it has something to do with me just sometimes not being very horny (hence possibly the limp dick thing). Well, after we were calmed down, and since we are trying to have a baby AND she is ovulating, we still needed to have sex. Well, I told her to rollover as I wanted to rub her lower back.
Earlier in the night, I was still fairly limp and even jacking it didn’t seem to make it swell too much. Well, once I started rubbing her lower back and letting my finger tips run against her skin, I noticed I was starting to plump up. I reached down and gave it a tug. Then I continued rubbing more, and then kissing her back. Again, it was plumping up on it’s own.
Long story short, my dick was getting nice hard and rigid (like a good erection should). We proceeded to have some great sex and I lasted for like 35 minutes.
What I can’t figure out is why I was having those times where my little guy didn’t want to come out and play very much, but then that last time, it decided to popup?
I don’t smoke or drink. I don’t regularly exercise but I have been taking some vitamins (especially Arginine), but in the last 2 days, that didn’t seem to help.
I thought for a while maybe sex every night was making me limp, but that shouldn’t be the case. Hell, 24 hours is enough to get rejuvenated. I have had a little stress at work, but not a ton.
Whats going on with me? I am only 24.
Thanks for listening.