Hi JohnG, you sound like me, but like 20 years ago :)
I think when you are “trying” to make a Baby, a lot of focus can go towards that, and JohnG Junior needs more mental stimulation, and performing the act can become a little mechanical. When I was in that situation, a couple times a day, I would picture myself and the wife going to Ubangi-Ville that night, and that helped quite a bit.
Some occasional side benefits of trying to make a Baby, is you can get some quickies in, and not feel guilty about it.
Good luck :)
cead mile failte :lep: