Sex and orgasms and stuff

Hi

Im new to both pe and sex. Only started having sex two months ago, with a girl who has had 24 partners before me. Yes that is weird, guess ive allways been shy and she… well… hasnt!

So anyway, when we have sex, she doesnt orgasm thru penetrative sex but says she never has!

I trust her but not sure if she is sparing my embarasment.

She can orgasm if i go down on her, but would love to make her come through sex (hence why i have started my regeime!)

Im 6.5 bp length and 4.75” girth and would like to increase btoh these to increase the chances of making her come.

Has anyone not been able to make a woman come through penetrative sex, ive read many places that says size doesnt matter, but im sure it does - when it comes to touching the right places!

Cheers in advance
melv

Melvin,
Welcome to Thunder’s!
Your story reminds me a bit of my life with my wife. When I met her she had been in many relationships before me and had 3 kids already. I had sex maybe twice before her and I hadn’t really penetrated those 2 times.
Your size sounds about average, if not a little bit longer than average and girth, well you can change that pretty quickly doing pe.

I would trust her about not being able to have the penetrative orgasms. There are other ways to achieve orgasm. Many positions to try. I saw some good ones on animatedkamasutra.com.
I personally like doggy-style while I reach around and stimulate the clit.

I hope your girlfriend opens many new worlds for you and you can learn a lot from each other!

I hope you remember to have fun at all times and not let her previous relationships make you insecure or anything like that. She’s with you now.
Good luck with the gains!

From what I’ve read, the majority of women don’t have orgasms through just penetration alone.

Here’s something that you can try:

Give her plenty of oral, but don’t let her get to the point of orgasm. Then, with her laying on her back, scoot on up to her pussy, and while on your knees, you should be able to rub your dick on her poontang. (From a side view, your bodies will make a 90 degree angle.) Do this for a while, then slide your dick in only 2 or 3 inches, and just do short strokes.

While you’re doing this, use one hand to rub her body, and use the other hand to stimulate her clitoris. (I like to wet my thumb, then use my thumb to rub her clit.) Then, right before she comes, start thrusting deeper, and right as she comes, start rubbing her clit a little harder while thrusting deeper.

Just something for you to experiment with. ;)

Also, check out this thread for some more interesting reading. Enjoy!

I had a gf for over 3 years who never orgasmed and I was over 8x5 and couldlast a long time. Some just do not, or maybe theymight later in life.

Blimey, i never realised! I blame mens magazines and the medie for this, I assumed that all girls could orgasm through penetrative sex! It never occured to me that its actually quite a clumsy way to stimulate certain areas (clit, g-spot)…

I also blame our creator, or dogdy evolution. If only it was as easy for girls as it was for guys, i think there would be a lot more smiley faces on this earth maybe?

Yes I’m rambling, back to work for me!

SS,

>Give her plenty of oral, but don’t let her get to the point of orgasm. Then, with her laying on her back…<

Hey, that’s a great idea thanks!

SS4