Secjay's "stimulation bridging" technique for inexperienced females
Hey guys, this thread may not be relevant to those married couples who have attained sexual perfection, but I thought it might be handy for those with girlfriends who are “new” to the sex thing, and are having trouble “geting off”, especially the younger guys on here.
Background: My girlfriend and I have been going out for one year. When we first started doing sexy stuff, she had never had any type of orgasm (@ 19 y.o!). She had never masturbated either. She though oral sex was yucky and didn’t even let me try for quite some time.
Eventually I got her to let me, and even though she said it didn’t feel like much, I persisted and eventually she admitted to liking it, and eventually she came, which was wonderful. But she could still only cum from direct clitoral stimulation.
Now: Recently we started to work on getting her to cum with me inside her (not from clitoral stimulation, but vaginal)
This is my technique that worked. I will call it “Secjay’s bridging technique” just because I wanted to shamelessly slap my name on something! :D
Note that the “steps” should take (for me, took) as long as it takes. Try a new step every time you’re together:
step 1: Normal oral sex - direct stimulation of the clitoris with the tongue, but towards the ‘end’, put a finger inside her gently.
step 2: Same as step 1, but lightly move your finger around, rubbing her G-spot.
step 3: Focus more on the G-spot stimulation towards the end, and go lighter on the clitoris.
step 4: Same as step 3, but when she is nearing orgasm (within 30 seconds of it) stop clitoral stimulation as much as possible, preferrably altogether, and focus on her G-spot. You may have to rub quite hard and fast.
Once these steps are completed, she will have an awakening of sorts. My girl certainly did. (Note that I didn’t follow these steps precisely, it took a few weeks in total and it sort of varied between days)
Our experience post bridging:
I licked her for quite a while, while fingering her G-spot. She was well turned on and orgasm was within sight.
I then mounted her from behind, and with a very sharp angle, thrusted into her G-spot while she continued to rub her clitoris with her fingers.
After a little while, her hands got tired and she stopped rubbing. I actually didn’t notice she had stopped. Shortly after, she started screaming “I’m cumming!” and she came with me!
This was her first orgasm that was not directly clitoral. It was necessary to stimulate it to get her close, but in the end it was G-spot based.
From the amount of noise she made, I know she really enjoyed herself!!!
It was the first time that we came together, with me inside her. And it was fantastic. :)
The only trouble now is that she has become addicted! It has only been 2 days since it happened, and she is constantly jumping me and sticking her tongue down my throat! *FUCKING FANTASTIC!* :D
I hope this story will give someone some inspiration or ideas to try out and get to do with their partner!