Reverse Premature Ejaculation

This is something that has recently been bugging me. Hopefully some of you guys can shed some light on it. When I jerk off, I can get myself to reach an orgasm within minutes. When I have sexual relations, however, it is a completely different story. For the life of me, I cannot have an orgasm where I don’t force it out. Does that make sense? I literally have to pull-out and enter into masturbation mode in order to climax.

I suppose I would rather have this problem than the opposite but still. I’d really like to be able to have a full-fledged orgasm while having sex. It’s not that I’m not finding it enjoyable (my EQ is always 10/10 during sex). Any suggestions guys?

You may be gay — not that there is anything wrong with that

Great advice Short. That’s exactly it. Thanks for your help. Because God knows I wouldn’t have figured THAT one out by now.

Haha. Whenever I need to bust quick I go from the back. Also, try not even thinking about it. Usually when I try to cum I can’t either.

Look up ejaculatory incompetence here, as well as most search words of “histamine” along with it, as other posters don’t use the technical terms, making the topical search harder. Also since it is technically the other side of the coin of premature ejaculation, discussions about that often take a swing with your topical theme as well to hide away some articles too.

I have experienced the same problem. I found that it was usually because I was not enjoying myself with lady. Either I had been with her so long I was losing the intimacy, or I just was not that attracted to her. Every once in a while I will hook up with a super hot chick that can make me cum faster than I can myself.

So, I guess what I am trying to say is that you are not as attracted to your sexual partner as you are to the women you think about during masturbation.

I hope this makes sense. I am sure the ladies aren’t upset with this problem.

I did have the same problem. Everything which has helped is outlined in my blog, see sig.