Reality check

Ok I have read threads from guys who feel inadequate about their penis size when all along they are normal or well endowed and don’t realize it.

So dudes here is a reality check test to achieve a healthy concept.

Step 1: Get yourself a full 100% erection .

Step 2: wrap your hand around the base of your erect penis. Wrap the other hand around the penis that remains. In otherwords you are stacking one hand on top other the other. If the glans comes to the top of the hand on top, your big!

Step 3: Now release your hands. Stack one fist on top of the other hold it out in front of your eye’s. Now look at the two fist stacked together. Doesn’t that look huge.

Now time to ponder. You can get a erection that in itself is great. Some of us are not able to, I wasn’t when I started lurking on TP more than two years ago.

Feel free to respond.

I must say that if you took a ruler and looked at any measurement over the 6 inch mark it does look pretty long but an actual penis measuring that size doesn’t look that long after all.

People have different size hands kingpole. That might not work for a 7” guy who has hands that are 4” across but he’s seriously above average. Is it not better to mention the actual average stats? Like the Kinsey ones (which are considered an overestimate of average by some).

Kingpole, I agree with you completely ,in principle, BUT the reality is, most of us still “see” with our brains. I was measuring and comparing not too long ago, since it’s been exactly 2 years that I started PE. Well, I’ve gained fairly significantly in all areas, and my girth is well above average as is my BPEL. The thing that bothers me, is, while I “know” that I’m bigger, and “above average” I’m still struggling with the mind set that I’m small.
Sometimes I’ll be surprised at the girth I’m feeling in my hand, or the feeling of filling up my wife’s vagina fuller than before, or she’ll make a comment about how fat it is, and I really like that, but generally I still feel like I’d like to be bigger. Our brains are very powerful sex organs and I wonder how long, if ever, before I’m able to “feel” big. Plus, because of PE I haven’t had any significant problem with the ED that I was struggling with, but there’s always a little nagging fear that I won’t be able to perform.

I think it’s a good question and I hope we can all get over feeling “small”

That is still big 7" is big.

Yeah but it’s 1” smaller than two hand widths at 4” per hand.

“2 … If the glans comes to the top of the hand on top, your big!”

In this case the glans would not so this 7” guy is supposed to think he’s small?

You got almost 6” girth alot of guys would sue you for girth like that. The Devil makes people feel small. God makes you feel large.

Interesting observation. We were with some friends just the other night, and over dinner we got to talking about self esteem and where low self esteem comes from and the concensus was what you just said. God wants us to feel good about ourselves and the destroyer wants us to feel inadequate and inferior. Thanks kingpole :) . I’ve always struggled with feelings of inadequacy, and I’m going to work on improving that. I AM large and in charge. How’s that?

Thanks for the reality check, kingpole.:up: 4”+ here, is this a big hands equal big cock myth or am I missing something as usual?

What a man thinks in his heart so is he. Proverbs 23:7