Very big problem(ED) , help !!! please
Ok, I will get strait to the point. I am 22 years old. When I was in High School I was fine. I had sex with several women and could go at least twice during sex, fully please women, my penis was 6 and a half inches erect, normal flaccid. I was very healthy, I didn’t even know you could get an erection that was not “full.”
Rather suddenly in my final year something physiological happened rather quickly (like over a week or two) where I suddenly developed erectile problems.I think I masturbated vigorously one time and after that all changed. My sex drive reduced hugely, my penis became a lot smaller in its flaccid state and it took a lot more for me to get aroused. The change was very sudden and my girlfriend thought I lost interest in her and cried about it. It was physiological, I felt the change dramatically.
Its now been 4 years, and this problem has literally shaped my life. When this problem happened, I quit smoking weed, quit cigarettes, never drank and expected my problem to get better.
Instead, over time it has not improved at all and slowly I have developed more symptoms. I now have:
-very enlarged vein on my penis (both when flaccid and erect).
-I also have a very hard/stiff penis when flaccid (like but 2inches long)
-I experience a burning sensation in my penis often in the vein.
-I have varicose veins on my testicle.
-My right testicle is smaller than before.
-I have gradually had a harder and harder time getting erections and they are not “full”. When erect my penis is about 5.5 inches instead of 6.5
-when erect the girth is much smaller
-I require so much more stimulation to get an erection and loose it quickly
-I feel discomfort in my penis, such as numb, aches. Sometimes my penis and my testicles feel like they have fallen asleep like when you sleep on your arm.
-My penis feels a lot hotter to the touch (both erect and flaccid) and my girlfriend notices that as well when we have sex. “its so hot” she says
-When erect it hurts to bend my penis because the veins/arteries are so stiff (even though it is less wide and an inch smaller than when I was 17)
-The mushroom on the top of my penis is soft when erect.
-It takes me like a couple days to build up any sex drive at all and because I haven’t gone in like a week when I have sex I just want to ejaculate once I get in the vagina.
-Even when I’m erect and I don’t feel a strong urge to ejaculate often, like, I could have sex with my girl please her, not ejaculate and not be bothered or teased by this, just loose my erection and forget about it.
-My penis is sensitive to things such as cigarettes, weed, alcohol (very sensitive) and being around them makes things much worse.
This problem is ruining my life. It has made me isolated socially (I do not even go in a room where someone lights a cigarette or joint anymore), I don’t drink at all other than like a beer or glass of wine, and Still the problems seem to either stay the same or get worse (depending on the problem). I don’t want to just take Viagra or something because I’m worried it will just poor blood into already engorged and irritated veins and arteries on my penis and further irritate them.
I have started taking a multi-vitamin and omega 3. I need some REAL advice on what I can actually do, Urologists have been no help. Anyone have a similar experience?
This is actually not my post but I slightly modified it so it describes my problems 100% accurately.
What can I do guys , I’m dying ..