Think I may have screwed myself up for life.

Thanks guys, you have made me feel better than most doctors ever did.

I guess I have never paid that much attention to my penis. I just hope I recover from this. This has definitely changed me as a person for the better. I definitely screwed a lot of things up by my own stupidity. Last five months have been a living hell. Never thought that a penis is narrow at the base when flaccid, turtling effect is something I had never heard of before and the impact of stress and anxiety on the penis. if Wayne Bobbit can recover from a chopped off penis then there’s hope for all of us. My biggest worry has been fascia tear or nerve damage and if I can dodge those two bullers, I will be extremely happy

I hope I will recover otherwise it will be a really shitty life. I am taking vitamins and focusing on work and family. The doctors haven’t done anything to determine the problem or even cared to investigate so I’m not expecting much from them. I think I need to abstain from sex and masturbation for another 3 to 4 months and try to limit stress anxiety and depression. Other than that I don’t think there’s a whole lot I can do. What advice would you guys give?

Don’t masturbate, continue sex, eat healthy and enjoy your wife and kids. In other words try to forget about it. Do me a small favor; 2 months from now when you’re perfect would you come back here and tell me? I may still be here.

That’s good advice Jimmybob55. I will follow it but let me warn you guys right now, there may be lapses when I am overcome with anxiety and stress over this so I may return on here for support and reassurance. I hope you guys won’t beat me up and just support me. I will definitely return when I am better to provide an update so others who go through this stress can know that things can and do get better and this is not the end.

No I didn’t say go anywhere. Stay here, post, help out other guys; from what I hear this is a fun place.Comeback to this thread whenever you need to. And remember stress kills dicks!

I definitely want to help other guys as much as possible. Any injury to the dick is devastating. I can imagine what some of these guys are going through. Scary part is when you see posters who have been suffering for years.

Hey guys,

Just wanted to put it out there some feedback I got from a doctor today. Just wanted to share it. While challenging, fascial tears are not impossible.

“Most facial tears will eventually heal but not always. Diagnosis is difficult unless the tear is relatively obvious and severe. Having sex no matter how vigorous is not likely to cause these injuries which are quite rare.

I cannot give you a diagnosis or treatment as that is not allowed on this general information forum. You need another urology opinion. Good luck.”

This is from a Urologist online. I double checked this person’s credentials, he’s bonafide.

Cam sharma

Pain was going away by its own, maybe I was letting my penis rest for a few days but there were sometimes that I didn’t. I just had sex etc and it still healed by itself. I never gave it too much thought about it. I hardly panick so…

Anyway you should know that pain in the penis out of nowhere can be caused by bad mentality that has to do with the belief, you are not giving enough as a man, or you are inadequate as a lover etc. I am not saying that is the case with you, I am saying it happens.

Imagine this. You show your penis to a stupid girl, sees it and laughs. If you are a sensitive person, that’s it. You are fucked. That’s all it takes.

You injure your penis and then trying to have sex. Functionality is low. The girl complains or looks confused. That’s it. You are getting thoughts, I am no man, what is left for me etc. You never heal. Mentally, cause physicaly the injury will probably heal. Then you think twice, you get angry and try to force the penis to work properly, cause, you know, you are a man, this can’t be right. But the penis is still injured and doesn’t respond well. So, you are trying harder and harder with a good chance to make the injury worse. You know how that goes. You never heal.

So… in short. Injury. Rest. If rest doesn’t work, doctor. If doctors don’t find anything wrong, more rest. If more rest doesn’t work, maybe a psychologist would be the right decision cause you will be allready in a dark place.

Thank you for that enlightening perspective, I was merely putting it out there that a fascial tear however unlikely is still possible as a warning to others, I don’t need a psychiatrist or psychologist. I have already concluded the extent of my injury isn’t a fascial tear with the assistance of some of the other members on the forum. My injury is getting better, slowly but surely, I am seeing an improvement but thanks anyway for chiming in.

You’re in a good place Cam.

Thanks Jimmybob55. Doing what I can to get there and stay there.

Had to say it, mate.

I agree with Jimmybob.

Long time reader first time poster.

A couple of months ago I awoke with severe penis pain, may have rolled over an erection. I believe I may have damaged or fully tore my suspensory ligament or tissue at the Base. My symptoms are: lifeless and limp penis, no shaft visible when flaccid/turtling penis. Lower hanging scrotum. Also, there’s a palpable gap between the penis and the base. I can stick my finger in pretty deep into my pelvis at the base of the penis. There used to be pain at the base but it has since dissipated. Right now I have testicular pain. My glans shape shifts, at times it’s long and narrow like a beak opposed the normal bulb shape. Especially around bowel movements or when I am. Stressed or in pain.

Have you seen a doctor about this? Turtling is brought on by anxiety and stress, I think it’s a Defence mechanism. Can’t speak to the shape shifting, may be someone else can weigh in?!

Key is getting the right diagnosis but I believe there’s a simple surgery to fix it, assuming that is your problem. Consult a doctor first.

Can damage/complete tear to the suspensory ligament cause limp and lifeless jello like cock? I still get erections and when I try to kegels my cock just twitches. I think I tore mine completely and God knows what else I damaged. Idiot that I am, I didn’t give it enough time to rest. The moment I felt better I returned to sex, about 10 days after the injury, I was in Caribbean on a holiday. Women and alcohol is not a good mix when you’re recovering from a dick injury. My cock hasn’t been the same since in fact that it’s deteriorating, could I have damaged something else too? Can a damaged lig cause scrotum to hang lower and affect the nerves in the penis and scrotum? I would think so because the lig is no longer keeping the nerves in the natural state causing them to move around. Had ultrasounds and MRIs, all negative.

Any thoughts on my questions? Would like to hear from the veterans on this board.