I’m 5 inches BPEL (a little more if I were to measure with the upward curve), and 3.8 inches EG. I have felt like I had a little dick for my entire life, and it definitely stopped me from pursuing sexual relationships until I was 22. Even after losing my virginity, it wasn’t until much later that I could pursue women without worrying about how they would react to the size of my penis. In actual practice, I have never had any complaints about my size. However, I still always wonder what it would be like to pack a bigger dick, and I still wish I had a little more to show when in the gym locker room, etc. I started the newbie routine as well as some Tom Hubbard-style pinch jelquing about 4 weeks ago, and I have seen some modest flaccid gains. Erect size hasn’t changed as far as I can tell, but I haven’t measured since starting.
I am happily married with kids, and my wife is happy with my size (I’ve hounded her about this countless times). She has had much larger in the past, including ones that would not completely fit in her (she’s a petite 5’2. 36 DD. Beautiful. I’m a VERY lucky dude). Not surprisingly, she said that really big penises were generally not an enjoyable experience for her (she married me, after all!).
I have told my wife about PE, and she actually thinks it is funny that I am trying to make it bigger. She is also somewhat skeptical that PE is possible at all. We are going on 5 years of marriage (been together for almost 7 years), and we still like to have sex 4-5 times a week despite being busy/exhausted with work and young kids. She is the best lover I have ever had, and she at least says the same about me. She’s got a pretty wicked sense of humor, so she teases me about PE, saying stuff like, “I’m expecting an 8-incher for my birthday!”, and “don’t make it too big or I won’t want you anymore”. The way I see it, any gains that I can get will be greatly appreciated by me, and I’m sure my wife will appreciate them as well. I also want to prove to her that it is possible! As far as making it too big, I really don’t think I have anything to worry about.
In a nutshell, I’m doing PE for me. Since my wife doesn’t care about my size, I am trying to gain additional length and girth for my own vanity and self-esteem. I am in little danger or making my penis too large for my wife to enjoy, and I really think there is no way she wouldn’t enjoy another inch (or more) of length and girth. 6X5 would probably be an ideal size for me, so that is my long-term goal. Obviously, I have a long road ahead of me and a lot of work to do.
Thanks to the community for all of the great info, and good luck!
Like yourself, I’m a very lucky guy with a woman who after 15 years still has great sex with me multiple times/week. I finally told here what I’ve been doing the for the last 6 months now that I have measurable gains and she was just like “cool, let me know when you get another inch”. Obviously with sex so frequent it won’t be easy for them to notice a change since it’s very slow going. For me, I’m doing it because I can. I have no hold ups over my size. I know how to use what I have and it gets the job done. But I’m all about improving myself in any and every way, physically, mentally, etc. So this is just one piece of the overall puzzle.
Her only worry was that by making it longer, it would get thinner, which would be an absolute no-no. I assured her that that wouldn’t happen. Fortunately, I’m about to graduate from the 5” club.