Well here are my thoughts on this subject…
-Sex shouldn’t be taboo in family! You should teach your kids about it, how to be safe and etc etc etc. Time is different, even tho I am only 25yo I can clearly see that kids these days are somewhere else than where I was in their age.
Every day I see and hear kids talking about sex, showing things on mobile phones to each others and etc and these kids are like 10-11yo damn! You don’t want your kid to be parent at 15, so talk about sex with them.
-PE is different on the other hand. I don’t think I would talk about it until my son would hit 20… A man is still growing up to like 20-22yo so it is somehow pointless to do PE in those time since you don’t know how big you will end up.
Next point is that in younger age (less than 20) guys are mostly in puberty, being irresponsible, light-minded, rushing things up, so it could be dangerous for them by my point of view.
Also for some reason I agree that it could make them feel they are small and they could be insecure about it later on.
So it is all referring back to talking about PE when your son will grow up and have “head on his neck” as I like to say.
-And you guys are forgetting one important thing, PE is not only for gains but it is also for having healthy manhood! It is just another way how to take care about your body. It seems, at least for me, illogical to eat healthy, hit the gym but completely forgetting one important part of your body, and some peoples also forgetting to take care about their brain sadly…
So again, it is not just a way to increase your size but having healthy body overall, don’t forget it.
Anyway, I believe I discovered porn world around 12-13 maybe? Didn’t care about dick size in those times. It all happens after 15 when I went from elementary school to middle school and saw other naked guys in showers and noticed those size differences. Others did as well because they were having talks about it and often compare them in shower lol. And it also connected to porn in that time and I noticed how “big” porn actors are. And “voila” here I started to care about size.
And as you know, if you don’t talk about sex in your family, your kid will have to learn about it alone, from internet, so it means he will watch a lot of porn and he will see these “big” guys too and here we are back to the start. He then could start feel as being small :)
I can’t tell how this is going in these times but I suppose it is even worse and kids starting with these things much sooner then we did, from what I see every day on streets.
So I think it is not that bad idea to talk about it to your son, but you have to find a right time ( not too soon ) and right way…
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