I guess I can see both sides. If I wasn’t in a long term relationship I wouldn’t tell. I think if you plan on bing with a woman you should tell her. If she freaks or makes fun of you than maybe you just shouldn’t be together.
I think that your attitude and confidence can gave a lot to do with how she will react. Like GonaBeBig tells people and doesn’t worry about it. If he wasn’t forthright and confident they might make fun of him about it.
I agree with the idea that woman stop at nothing to be more attractive. So, we should be able to do PE without ridicule.
The cat is out of the bag with Mrs. Shooter; now I really don’t care who knows.