Where do you drink?
Well impressed Wad!
Whilst you have compromised your privacy to an extent, your compassion and concern for someone who clearly has suffered in silence up to now, in all probability never finding anyone with whom to have a meaningful conversation in such a personal area, will compensate for this.
If he becomes a member and I hope he does, he will always be grateful to you I would expect, for the opportunities to discuss,something which hitherto it has been impossible to do, with so many good people who will provide advice, inspiration, support and friendship.
Must say that in my experience, dick size has never arisen in conversation, after beers or anything else come to think of it. Just wondering how many you actually had before the topic came up and where do you drink exactly?
You have shown yourself already to be a true friend.