I could use a mentor
I’m on the verge of just giving up on PE together. I’ve been off and on for like 3 years with zero results, and I’m attributing that to mostly inconsistency and overtraining, as well as the opinion that I’m just a hard gainer.
Before thunders, I thought my size was normal. Then I found out my girth was .5”-1” below average, and everytime I see someone’s pic with a starting size that much larger, I’m crushed. In the time I’ve done PE, I’ve actually shrunk (see thread on it), basically losing .2” on length and almost an inch off my already pathetic girth. I would attribute that to uncemented gains, except that those were my starting stats. I have a lot of stress and some emotional issues going on right which may be affecting it, but whether they’re the cause of my size or the effect of it I do not know. I can also safely say that at this point I’m against getting with anyone at this point, as I have zero confidence and if I do actually get to the point of sex, I don’t want to fall short. Knowing that there’s a large amount of people out there with 5.5” + girths (which by the way appears as a MASSIVE difference in real life compared to a 3.5”-4” girth), I dont’ want to even subject myself to that.
So this is one last appeal for some help I guess. I don’t really want to give up, but I’m so frustrated that I don’t know I can do it much longer. I could use length (~6.8” npbel right now), but I just really want girth.
Sorry for the depressing rant, this place is all I’ve got.