Would some women not like the size of my dick? Sure. I don’t care.
I think this is the difficult one. Because we DO care. Way too much.
“Did my gf/ wife have bigger than me in the past? Did she enjoy it more?
Does she miss that guy with the big dick?”
And if she didn’t have anyone bigger than you; “Is she aching to try out a big dick? Do
her friends tell her about this guy with the big schlong who took them to heaven? Is she wondering
what it’s like to be f***ed by a 10” dick? Is she thinking that my dick is good, but maybe bigger is better??”
And on and on and on and on…
We need to relax. Or we’ll go crazy and become totally obsessed with the dick we DON’T have, and what good does that do?
It makes us stay motivated for PE for years to come, but we need to enjoy sex here and now.
It takes much of the sexual joy and pleasure away to be thinking “am I big enough? Is she enjoying me?
Do I fill her up?” etc etc
I don’t think most women are thinking about your dick size all the time during sex, rather the opposite; “Am I giving him pleasure, does he like my body? Are my tits
too small? Too saggy, Too big? Am I too loose? Does my belly bother him? Is my technique ok? Does he like my blow jobs?” Etc. Etc..
So how much brain capacity is left to enjoy sex and focus on your partner if you’re worrying about these things while making love??
R E L A X !
January 2009: BPEL: 8.6" EG: 5.7"
Goal for 2009: BPEL: 8.75" EG: 6"
Ultimate goal: BPEL: 9" EG: 6.5"