8" x 6" and not happy??

mravg,
I think this is the difficult one. Because we DO care. Way too much.
“Did my gf/ wife have bigger than me in the past? Did she enjoy it more?
Does she miss that guy with the big dick?”

And if she didn’t have anyone bigger than you; “Is she aching to try out a big dick? Do
her friends tell her about this guy with the big schlong who took them to heaven? Is she wondering
what it’s like to be f***ed by a 10” dick? Is she thinking that my dick is good, but maybe bigger is better??”
And on and on and on and on…

We need to relax. Or we’ll go crazy and become totally obsessed with the dick we DON’T have, and what good does that do?
It makes us stay motivated for PE for years to come, but we need to enjoy sex here and now.
It takes much of the sexual joy and pleasure away to be thinking “am I big enough? Is she enjoying me?
Do I fill her up?” etc etc
I don’t think most women are thinking about your dick size all the time during sex, rather the opposite; “Am I giving him pleasure, does he like my body? Are my tits
too small? Too saggy, Too big? Am I too loose? Does my belly bother him? Is my technique ok? Does he like my blow jobs?” Etc. Etc..

So how much brain capacity is left to enjoy sex and focus on your partner if you’re worrying about these things while making love??

R E L A X !

Ahund

8x6 is huge. Most women can’t handle that size.

I absolutely agree that the majority of the time, for the majority of women, this is true. Period. And good on you for saying it.

However, there are some instances where it is only part of the equation (note: it is ALWAYS part of the equation).

Some women, especially those that are very in tune with their own pleasure, are turned on by the idea of a big dick, the sight of a big dick, and usually the feeling of a big dick. Your cock can become the mental focus of her experience and she can get off on that much more easily than if she is thinking about her own performance. I’ve had this experience when the novelty of having a big dick put her focus on my dick and how it made her feel, instead of on her insecurities. Again, the women that respond the best to this are pretty good at focusing on their own pleasure, already.

While I’m not quite 8” long, yet, I have to say that is bullshit. I’ve never met one, anyway. Say it if it makes you feel better, but it just isn’t true. Too many guys here can tell you otherwise.

Regardless, my wife could handle 8” of girth. While I’ll never reach that stat and she probably isn’t normal, I won’t be quitting anytime soon.

How long have you been married?
How many girls have you schtupped?

I wish I had an 8X6 so I could report back to the board about whether or not most chciks can handle 8 inches of NBP length.

I suspect that after 7 inches NBP, you get a quickly escalating % of women in whom you cannot bottom out.

Since I already dropped my girth figures in another thread, I might as well make a run for it with length.

All measurements NBP in inches
7 18% of women cannot take it all
7.25 24%
7.50 35%
7.75 48%
8.0 60%
8.25 70%
8.50 85%
8.75 92%
9.0 96%
10 99%

I’m going to start a new thread!
This a great poll and maybe we can figure out the ideal length and girth, which IMO, is the point at which only 40%-60% of women can take all of your cock.

When I read female discussions about dick size, many women, if they are experienced, have stories about the guys who were too big. We have to remember that most women are going to be polite and not criticize your dick whether you are bigger, or smaller, than her preference. Big guys assume that women love their big dicks, and regular guys often assume their partner would prefer something bigger. Those assumptions are often wrong. I think most women could “handle” 8x6, but I don’t necessarily think that a “vast majority” of women think that is the best size, as is the commonly stated propaganda on this forum.

I agree.

I would love to have an 8x6, just so I would have it.

But my woman disagrees.

I top out at 6 3/4bp x 5.5 fresh pumped.(6 nbp x 5 preworkout)

And as I stated earlier. Another 1/2” length would be perfect (for her)

And another whole inch in girth would be her happy limit too.

That would put me roughly at 6.5 x 6.5 nbp and freshly pumped for girth.

I don’t mind that goal because it is only 1/2 ” x 1 1/2” to gain, and I gain girth alot easier than length.

So I guess in another year of steady focused routines , I can be where she would be happy, which is where I would be happy.

Of course my dreams/goal of 7x7 still plagues my insanity

I think we all *care*, but we shouldn’t *worry*. I myself don’t.

I’m not saying there isn’t such a thing as too big, I just know beyond a shadow of a doubt that 8x6 is not it. I do think that 8” length is probably ideal for women that respond to deep penetration, but only if you use it right. Longer may indeed cause pain, especially by porn crazed idiots that only want to pound the shit out of it. You can certainly get away with much less, too - it sounds like many (maybe most) don’t get off on deep penetration. My experience would say more than half do, but typically in addition to g-spot and clitoral stimulation.

6” girth isn’t too big and I can say that with all certainty. I’m not just talking about being able to “handle it”; I mean enjoy it and enjoy even more. This has been my experience and my recollection of female discussions I’ve read, overheard or had. Please don’t take this the wrong way mravg, but if they come back for more, they aren’t just being polite.

Lucky for me, I don’t have figure out what is ideal to please a whole lot of women, just one - and I know what she likes.

Of course that’s what I meant, but it was a response to “I don’t care”…

I myself am a worrier. Always was. Working in it though.
In terms of dick size, I’ve come a long way..
Maybe better to be a warrier? :-)

Ahund

Ahund,

When I was a PE newbie (seems like decades ago), I remember setting my first erect length goal of 7” and thinking that I would be ultimately happy at that size. Along the way, I was fortunate to be a fast girth gainer and reached the 6+” girth mark and beyond fairly quickly and eventually reached what I thought was the miraculous 7” mark in erect length. Well, lo and behold, I then set a new goal of 8” erect and have been pursuing this elusive goal for over two years. I thought I was on the verge a year or so ago, when I was easily getting more than 8” in stretched flaccid size, but the erect length plateau has been stubborn to break.

I’m not complaining about my erect length plateau, and it’s not like my wife is wanting me to have a bigger dick. For me, I think I’ve become just a bit greedy and want as much bigger size as I can get to compensate for all those younger years feeling so inferior about my size.

What will be big enough for me? Honestly, I don’t know. Right now, I would say that I’m extremely satisfied with both my flaccid and erect girth and flaccid length, but I want to look into the mirror one day and be totally satisfied with my erect length. No, I don’t beat myself up about it, and I have a very satisfying personal and professional life coexisting with my dick size pursuits. As long as there’s the possibility of my goal being reached,though, and new PE devices being created, I’ll probably continue to pursue the dream.

And shouldn’t we always have some dream to shoot for….?

Peforeal,

Exactly!
And while we are working towards that dream, let’s be happy with what we have,
enjoy the size we have been given OR worked our asses off to reach, but aim for the stars and reach the
tree tops!
My point here is that while 8 x 6 used to be some kind of golden standard,
it seems, like on every other area in our world, that it’s no longer enough,
now guys want 9 x 6.5, 10 x 7 etc. look at the signatures in Thunder’s and see people’s goals.

It’s not like it’s a walk in the park to gain length or girth. For most guys it’s hard work and small gains.
We see the success stories here, guys gain 2” of length or 1.5” of girth. These are extreme numbers, and what about
average sized guys who don’t gain very much, what is it doing to their confidence to see that 8 x 6’ish guys
aren’t happy? Complaining about uneven girth, some curvature, or whatever..
We must not let the dream of having a big dick make us blind, make us live in a “if-I-just-Had-a-huge-dick-I-Would-be-happy” - world.
Because that’s a lie.

ahund

well I only read about half of this but I’ll post my opinion.I’m with the people that are saying it’s in your mind. 8x6 is plenty big enough but when it comes to the male ego, it’s about confidence and taking control. I think there is nothig better then imagining myself pulling out a 9x6.5 dick and seing the shock in the girls face instead of pulling out my 6 3/4 x 5 and wondering if I’m going to satisfy her. I’m nowhere near 9x6.5 and don’t plan on getting there anytime soon but I imagine that when I’m doing PE. So for the 8x6 guys who arn’t happy, keep at it if it will help your self of steem. For me, it gives me something to look forward to. Kinda like people who lift weights. It gives them something to be proud of.

cbick

Exactly! But it is the same story as with ANY other part of our male life.Please have in mind guys that we are now on PE forum.we are constantly focused on our dicks.’if only my dick was bigger I would be happier in life’..

I am 26. I run my own small company. I have more money than most of my friends will earn in 10 years.I drive Volvo and I am single-because I can not find proper girl. And guess what.I constantly hear my friends saying “If I just had more money my life would be.this.and this.”. It makes me laugh when I hear that. The truth is that none of the things ‘from the outside” can make us happy.happiness is inside of our minds.If you can not feel happy or confidence you will never feel it just by having longer dick or more money. Ask any guy with money and he will tell you that ‘Money Does Not Buy Happiness’.of course it makes live easier but it does not equal happiness or fulfilment.The same is with dicks.do you think that Mandingo is any happier in live than you are? Or DLD? Well, DLD’s life is better thanks to 10 inch dick but only because he earns money on people who buy his products in order to have as big dick as his dick..

SIZE DOES MATTER.but let’s not make it some kind of mantra.size matters but only to some extent.if you are 5 inch long you can have problem.but you have even bigger problem if you are 10 inch! :)

Good post disi.

You’re right. I think I’ve spent a lot of my younger days trying to fill up my life with things, such as the convertible sports car, then the mercedes, then the brand new house in the great neighborhood,then the bigger house, then the nice clothes….Well,you get the picture. As I look back, achieving these goals did not bring me ultimate happiness, and, in fact, I’m now in the mode that “less is more” and I’m trying to simplify my life. Today, what most brings me happiness is seeing how well my daughters have turned out and that my wife and I are still on solid ground after years of marriage. Everything else seems much less consequential. Now it could be due to the wisdom that comes with maturity, and frankly I’m very happy for that insight.

So, where does my dream for an even bigger dick fit into all of this? Well, I love a personal challenge, and I thrive on having goals to motivate me. So, I’ll be very content with the dick size I’ve gotten through PE, but I will still enjoy the adventure of being challenged.

Peforeal