When I drink beer I can't orgasm!

Ok so last night and like 3 days ago I recently started having sex with a new girl. She’s hot, has good conversations and so on.. Well I’ve had sex with her twice now and both times I couldn’t ejaculate. It’s a first for me usually I’m the one orgasming faster than the girl but this time she has orgasms and I just can’t orgasm and after 10 15 min of having sex I go limp. Both nights we went out I had some beers to loosen up and when where out I’ll have more beers. I enjoy drinking but if the alcohol is gonna mess with my erection and ejaculation than I’m gonna quit drinking. Is it the beer or just alcohol in general?? Maybe if I drink vodka or whiskey just little bit? I don’t want her to think it’s her or something. Comments???

Oh and I wasn’t wearing a condom

It has been shown that alcohol whatever form it takes has a negative impact on the sex-drive. If you want to have better sex, you will have to abstain completely.

Good job you didn’t ejaculate then. In the infamous words of Jeremy Kyle ”PUT SOMETHING ON THE END OF IT”.

Try whisky.

When I drink the hard stuff, I can never cum, unless I take it out and wank it out for about 15 minutes straight then maybe. DOn’t know why this happens to me. Doesn’t really mess up my erections or anything either.

Well this is all very interesting stuff.. Seems like the key to lasting forever is as simple as getting wasted.

Does this mean that drinking before sex is recommended for premature ejaculation?

The malt in beer acts a a sexual depressant. That’s the one reason I never drink beer.

Alcohol is terrible for your body in many ways. I drink vodka.

Sounds like you really dig her. Don’t make a big deal of it and she won’t. Take your time and get a little more comfortable with her and it will all work out.

Alcohol delays ejaculation, but in some people can induce mild ED. I’ve always gotten the benefits without the down-sides!

Look I have been drinking gallons of beer for over 40 years and can tell you that drinking is not good for sexual fitness. But I also know damn well that if you like it you’ll continue drinking beer no matter what.

I use a penis pump regularly and a cock strap now to have sex.

But of course if you can quit drinking alcohol you’ll be glad in the future so make the effort to quit. If you have a real problem, consider attending AA.

I find it nice to get have drunk sex once every few months, i usually have a little more trouble getting it up but when i do i can go for ages.

I think i feel a little less sensation in my penis and that why i can last longer, plus every time it falls out it takes that extra second to find the hold again, fun stuff!

Any form of alcohol causes the body to become dehydrated, which affects Mr. Winki - alcohol also depresses your nervous system, yadi yadi yada your penis won’t be as sensitive.

You can combat these affects by increasing your overall EQ, eg with jelqing and/or kegeling, or, if you’re really desparate, pick up some herbal supplements, I find horny goat weed works very well for this particular purpose, and eat a few grams of that about 30 minutes before sexy-time, that should sort you out. :)

Why do you need to ejaculate every time you have sex with a girl? Take a little breather for both of you - get some water to stay hydrated and get back on her!

Repeat this cycle until she says “NO MORE!”

As far as EQ… Kegels, supplements and keeping away from over-training have dramatically raised my EQ. Even when I’m wastey-faced.