Should I continue PE

I recently took a break from PE and am considering getting back into the routine. The question I keep asking myself however, is should I?

I’m currently 6.5” BPEL, 5.5” EG mid-shaft and 6”+ EG (varies) at the glans. I gained right at 1” in length last year. The results were mostly positive. The wife definitely seemed to enjoy the extra inch. She gets much wetter, much more vocal, seems to have stronger orgasms, etc. That said, it didn’t come without a down side. Unfortunately, soreness now seems to occasionally be a problem. She has stopped me quite a few times when I’ve given it to her hard, which she asks for btw, and there is a couple of positions she simply can’t take at all now, even gently. She says it “feels like I’m bruising her innards”. Yes, I have taken my time, tried to get her more excited, plenty of lube etc, but none of it seems to help much. Hence my dilemma. There is absolutely no doubt she has enjoyed the extra inch, and me being the vain bastard that I am, I certainly have enjoyed giving it to her! Despite the soreness, I’d venture a guess that ultimately she has enjoyed the trade off. That said, it is starting to get a little annoying for me. She doesn’t know about my PE and I refuse to just ask her as I don’t want to give her any idea that I may be self-conscious about it, which in all honesty I’m not. I know ultimately it’s a trade off I’m going to have to weigh and just decide on, but what would you do? Keep going and hope she gets used to it? Try to just concentrate on girth? I’ve seen a couple replies in posts before about some of you having similar issues, what is your suggestions?

Hi.are you married and looking to be with your women forever.if so I think you are both at the right size for each other and it sounds like you don`t need to impress her.take some time off and enjoy your women.

Do you want a functional penis that does the job.
OR do YOU, like the rest of us here, want a penis that is so big it split the girl in half, and make her cry!

Your girth is perfect by any standard, if I had your penis I would try to gain a little length, so you atleast get 6.5 nbel, but not necesarry at all.

Well Ben, like I stated in my original post she has definitely responded positively to the added length, and I’m not so sure she wouldn’t enjoy a little more even. So at least in my eyes this is more an issue with what I want. It’s been fun watching her respond to it and I have to admit, it is a bit of an ego stroke when she says she can’t take any more. On the other hand, it is kind of limiting, which sucks.

I won´t do pe anymore if I´m happy with my current stats and my sex partner can´t take anymore :)

Functional and enjoyable penis vs. “just for ego” penis ;)

I understand wanting more size, but if she can’t handle any more, why hurt her just to stroke your ego?

Define “handle”. I guess I just don’t see it as being that black and white. It’s not like she’s not enjoying it. There is absolutely no doubt that she likes the feel and orgasms quicker and noticeably harder. I don’t know for sure, but I think she would enjoy it if I were even a bit bigger. The problem is, I just can’t pound away as hard or definitely as long as I used to without her getting sore. I guess the question I’m trying to get at is if that trade off is worth it?

If she starts holding back on sex because of your size, You’ll have the answer.

Quite simply, if you are making her sore; then, if you increase your size the soreness will get worse. And your wife will be reluctant to have sex.

Goldfinger007,
I think you are already at or very near the limit of what you should aspire to and still be pleasurable to your wife. “Feels like I’m bruising her innards,” with this you are hitting her cervix. This is like thumping your testicles hard. Not a good feeling. “Soreness now seems to occasionally be a problem.” This is girth being at her limit.

At 6.5” length you are already in the 80th percentile on length. At 5.5-6.0” girth you are in the 90-100th percentile on girth. Both depend on who/what stats you use.

Bottom line you are already much larger than average. If your wife regularly complains of discomfort, I would only do maintenance and EQ exercises and discontinue growth work. If you try to get bigger I think the sex will become less frequent and whats the point in that.

Hope this helps. Take care and have fun.

I would have to agree with what pretty much everyone has said here as well. If you are at the point of not being able to have sex as often, or at the level of intensity you and she both enjoy just do maintenance. You are already quite thick, especially at the glands. I started out pretty thick and would routinely make my wife sore pre PE, after 2+ years of doing PE my length has not increased as much as my girth has. The result of that is, if I hit it really hard and go crazy, I am sometimes SOL on getting laid for 5-6 days before she is ready again. My wife has asked me before not to do any more PE, so I understand where you are coming from. It is the worst addiction you can have. Ultimately you have to decide what is best for the both of you.

Maybe I misinterpreted this.

Time to retire from PE. Congrats man!

There is definitely no reason to sacrifice her (and eventually your) pleasure. Be on a maintenance training, giving her the opportunity to adjust to your new size. If she gets again comfortable with it, you may resume PE.