New here and confused

Hi everyone, I am new here. Never heard of PE in my entire life until I found this site. This is such an amazing site !!

I am on day 3 following the newbie routine now, hope it will work. However I am confused with the measurements, how do I measure ? Also I don’t understand all the measurement abbreviation other people posted :(

One more question, I am doing dry jelq with one hand at a time. I am not sure if I am doing the right thing even after doing all the reading on this site. The thing that annoyed me the most is my stupid pubic hair got in the way while jelqing, which causes pain.
I’m not sure if I’m over or under jelqing in terms of strength, as I don see any bruising or discolouration. I don feel any pain too, just a bit discomfort (should I say weird feeling) on the next day. So am I over or under doing this ?

Thanks for your time

Old here and still confused myself bluebird. Welcome to the forum.

Try this:

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Do the search on how to measure. No pain or bruises is good. In all likelihood you are doing everything right. Continue.

Also search for demo videos of exercises.

Crap, now I am confused by which link the boss posted.

Check out:
START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info

Penis Enlargement FAQ & Glossary will answer your terminology questions. Penis Enlargement Videos,A Quickstart Guide to Manual Exercises and Penis Enlargement Manual will answer your questions on how to do the exorcises. To start with do this routine: Newbie Routine

You are better off doing the wet jelqs and shaving your unit to prevent hair pulling.

Thanks ‘Ru.

Hi and welcome.

The guys usually trim the hair back off of the shaft and surrounding areas so that it doesn’t get pulled, tugged, yanked when doing the exercises. I think you will find this to be a suitable alternative to pulling, tugging and yanking.

Exactly or you could leave it there. You will get used to it, in a few weeks you won’t feel a thing.

Welcome to the forum.

Welcome to the community.

As the others said, you could cut the hair back, I myself plucked all the hairs out. It hurt a hell of a lot to start with but then I started using warm water to open the pores. It’ll stay easier on jelqing for longer, but its more hassle than simply trimming. I agree with iamaru with doing wet jelqs instead of dry, I found its a lot gentler on the skin and it allows for more of a smooth action to pump the blood, but again, that’s personal opinion.

Good luck with gaining bluebird :)

Thanks for all supports guys !!

The other problem which I didn’t mention before was I’m having problem maintain the semi-erected stage.. Maybe is because of discomfort caused by jelqing, after about 8-10 strokes, it went back to almost flaccid stage again. Then I have to work on it before I can continue jelqing.
Anyone having the same problem ?

Hey Bluebird, welcome.

That’s a common problem that you’re having and I’m sure that most would testify to having similar experiences. Personally, when jelqing I just try to control my erection mentally. If I find myself getting too hard, then I’ll let my mind wander elsewhere whilst subconsciously continuing with my jelqing. If I find myself going slightly soft, then I’ll simply think about some hot chick and also continue my wet-jelq stroke over the glans with a minimum amount of pressure and therefore gently stroking the frenulum. I have to stress that it isn’t wise to jelq over the glans and that you should generally stop before you get to it. I’d also like to point out that if you are masturbating too much/often then this could be causing you to go flaccid during a jelq session.

Good luck. :thumbs:

You pulled the hair out, lol, thats hard core right there!! I don’t think I would have been in the mood to tug on my stuff after that. :O