New Cock on the Blog.
Guy’s..
New member & I’d like to get the benefit of the guys who have come out the other side.. Please
Nearly 40 and thought I would have grown out of this anxiety about having a small flaccid penis with tight small balls.. But since my teenage boy mentioned stretching his thing I kinda went into a meltdown about 6 months ago.. For both of us
To be honest when I look back several bouts of depression through life are not the root cause but are certainly near the centre.. Probably the worst was that I thought I must be gay @ 15 because I kept finding myself looking at every mans crotch to see if they were smaller than me.. What a mess, and not funny at all..
The dread of getting stripped on the stag party, wearing trunks, getting in the shower at school, skinny dipping, even getting your Tallie whacker felt by a girl for the 1st time when it’s in turtle mode.. Even going to the sexual health clinic is a nightmare cos it shrivels up big time.. The worst was when the lady doing the test was someone that I used to serve in the bar that I worked in.. How I wanted to tell her that it was OK when pumping.. Oh well you all got your own stories right ?.
1) I seriously need to stop the anxiety which sometimes feels crippling, especially when I look at my total lack of bulge in jeans, or sat down.. You know the one guys.. I had CBT after my divorce years ago, but at the time my dick was the last thing on my mind.. Funny how sometimes it just ain’t a problem..
2) and MOST important.. How do I protect my boy from the potential of having any head fucks in this area in years to come??
Measuring properly and accurately.. (Have to be honest with yourself) I’m about 6inch long approx 5.5inch Girth.on a horny day.. Sometimes if I’m stressed / tired / cold in a Flaccid state it can be as little as 1.5 inches which makes me feel upset.. I always thought it was OK and to be fair a girl has never said anything bad about my erect thingy .. So try to focus on the positive.. But it aint that easy right ??
Anyway .. I joined and hope to sort myself out finally & get prepared for helping my boy through - if he needs it.. I REALLY REALLY hope he doesn’t have the same insecurities as me..
Next stop a progress report as I’m gunna do some stretches and ting..
Peace out Brothers.. Help and advice taken.