Hello Purple dragon,
> I’ve seen the pill ADS and creams and such, do any work?<
No. If it were as easy as that, this place wouldn’t exist. This is how you can use chemicals The Chemical PE Thread but it’s not for the feint hearted and certainly not a good place to start.
> I’ve seen surgery ADS promising an inch in girth.<
And they can certainly deliver that, with concomitant erectile problems, loss of girth later etc. Penis enlargement surgery is at best experimental and there are some really bad horror stories. A lot of the horror stories are later covered up (it’s even happened here in the past) as a part of the settlement process.
> Reading some threads I’ve seen there is an exercise for girth. What’s safe? <
The newbie routine is the place to start. Don’t jump into advanced exercises that promise girth gains. Advanced means only useful for people who’ve built up a tolerance to the pressures involved in PE.
> It works quite well and I’m afraid of damaging it, any sound advice is appreciated <
If you are happy with your dick as it is, then don’t bother to PE. PE is a long process, measured in years, and requires commitment. It also has risks, which can’t be obviated completely.