Mental Premature ejaculation

When masturbating on my own with no visual stimulants, I can get fully erect and last as long as I want, literally until it starts getting boring. But as soon as I switch some porn on or something, I can just feel my PC muscle start going crazy and I blow.

I very obviously have some mental issues but was wondering, is this the sort of thing that having a higher level of serotonin or taking SSRI’s would cure? Because I’ve read that serotonin reduces anxiety and makes people feel more relaxed.

Thx

Huh?

Do you ejaculate when you see porn, even if you don’t masturbate?

I’d check out other things before doing pills or herbs. I know a lot of people will avoid commercial drugs but will use herbal remedies. Frankly, many drugs initially came from natural herbs - and God did produce hemlock!

I’ve probably posted twice or thrice on this in the past few days, but it’s because I’m so amazed. BREATHING. Yup, breathing. I know different things work better for different people, but I’ve seen significant improvement in delaying orgasm by focusing on regular breathing. Do a search on “Lasting Longer”, you’ll probably see references in there.

Also, look at Kegeling and reverse-Kegeling. I’m finding that reverse Kegeling delays orgasm as well (especially when used in conjunction with breathing). Some say kegeling does. I do know you can stop an orgasm by kegeling if you catch it at the right time and also diminish stimulation.

Lasting longer with no outside stimulation is not uncommon. Think about it, you don’t want things to end yet so a signal gets sent to your brain saying “whoa!”. A subtle change in your pattern, pressure, speed, etc. Will introduce a delay - just as you can decide to bring things to a rapid conclusion :D . You might not even notice. Bring in external stimulation (porno or an actual women who will be moving, possibly making noises, touching you, etc) and you become overwhelmed. Your brain can say “whoa” all it wants but the stimulation doesn’t diminish as much or as quickly as when you’re alone. The difference between alone and a partner is like the difference between a 40watt bulb and a 100Watt bulb - thank God for that though :D .

Hey,

I’m not sure if I suffer from PE. However I believe the likelihood to be so. Well has anyone had dry sex with the woman on top and came in their pants? because I have a few times when we have done it in my relationship with my gf (we haven’t had sex yet). So does this mean with full stimulation I will blow really quick? I mean I know I will have to wait and see when we do get around to sex but does the likelihood seem to be there?

Thanks

I experienced that in my mid-teens with a girlfriend who loved to grind. She wouldn’t stop until she went at least once and usually twice. Drove me crazy because I hated the mess, but man, what 16/17 year-old is gonna say no when some girl is climbing all over him?

Yup :|. It probably does mean the first time will be much faster than you’d like .. Then again, almost all sex ends sooner than you’d like :) . Very seldom is that not the case the first time(s) for a guy. You might want to do a search on the “lasting longer” and some the advice they offer there. The “default” arousal patterns for men and women seem to be exactly backwards. It’s proof God has a sense of humor!