Measured my size now, and got a few q's

What exactly are kegels? I’m not 100% on those yet, even after reading about them.

My exactish measurements are: (also need to know what all the EG, NEG) etc means..
3 3/4” Lenght Flacid
3 3/4” Girth Flacid
5 1/2” Lenght Erect (might be slightly more)
4 1/2” Girth Erect (also might be slightly more)
Being in Australia, measuring in inches sucks, but luckily I’ve got a ruler that has both :)

As you can see, I need to work on both parties, but atleast I’m glad that I’m not way behind on any. Being just 5’7 I’m not a big guy, so I’m guessing this would be around the average for my height, but I’d realy like to improve. I’m aming for 6 1/2” Lenght, and 5-5 1/2” Girth, if this would ever be achieved I think I’d die a happy man.
Main reason why I want to do PE is because of my gf, she is petite and half asian, but has been with four guys before me (I’m 19, she just turned 18). I feel as if I probably should be filling her nicely, but I’m guessing she has had way too much experience and way bigger than me in the past. As she is my first, I had huge anxieties with my size but I came through, but I feel as if I could never satisfy her enough with my current size. She has also joked around with me a few times that I’m a bit small, which realy got me embaressed and ashamed.
For myself mainly, I want to improve my confidence, and be a better lover with less effort. Being a lover in my eyes isn’t about being good with hands or the tongue, it’s about making love to the girl, it’s about the technique and about the size. You need both to make the right balance and I feel that my scale is not sitting straight.

While taking your next piss, stop the flow in midstream. You just did one kegel. Squeezing that muscle is the one we are talking about. This article describes everything:

Locating the bc muscle

Kegels help you last longer and perform better. Hope you get your desired gains soon and feel good about yourself :)

Ohh, yep I know exactly what you mean.

So you obviously perform this at 100% erect right?

I seem to be able to do it at all stages even when flacid, but obviously not as effective.

My current girlfriend had 3 or 4 guys before me and she calls me big.. Ahhh, the joy :D Hope you get the gains you want and experience my happiness :D

You can do kegels at anytime, even when talking to your Grandmother. You don’t need any particular erection level to make them more effective, but if you do them when erect, they will make your cock jump and girth swell up a little bit. If you do them while inside your girlfriend, she can feel the size difference. :)

Lol! Rub it in more please.. :(
I hope my gains of 1/2 - 1” All around are not too drastic, and I hope I could achieve them this year.
Getting some flacid size would be awesome aswell, just the joy of playing around with your sword in the male toilets freely and proudly would be an awesome feeling.

That’s not cool. What exactly has she said, and what was the context? Maybe she doesn’t realize guys can be sensitive about their dick size. But how would she feel if you joked around about her big, loose pussy? Or if you told her her pussy smelled horrible?

I went really quiet after that, and I think she got the message somewhat, hopefully it doesn’t happen again. Once when I suggested we try anal, she asked me “why? Do you think my pussy is too loose or something?”. I’m pretty sure she has probably had some bad experience where that’s concerned in the past and she’s just trying to get the upper hand with me. She is a good girl, and loyal, her pussy has no smell what so ever, if anything it is a perfect pussy. Perfectly trimmed, perfectly shaped, and pretty tight in my opinion, not that I can compare. (I’m not praising her, but damn.)
Look honestly, I’m not going to let my penis size and these comments get to me that much. God/Nature made us what we are, I’m lucky that I’ve got good looks and a bit of brains, and that’s all I was given to work with. If I achieve any size gains with this program, that’s a bonus and something that I would be really happy with.
I see a lot of people on the forum depressed and really embarrassed about their size even though they’re beyond average in size, you guys must realise one thing, and quickly before you ruin your lives for nothing. Realise that many people have way bigger issues than you where size is concerned, they’d amputate their limbs just to see what it’s like to be you for one day. We all take everything for granted all the time, and it’s a shame that you never really know or appreciate what you have..
You’re probably asking yourself, yeah yeah, keep preaching, but if you didn’t feel the same you wouldn’t be hear… This is true, but then again I’m not average in size, and I actually have a legitimate concern and reason to try it.
If I ever hit my goal, 6 ½” by 5 ½” I’d gladly stop right there and continue my life a much happier man, without the urge to want more.

I don’t know how you are measuring. But I made mistakes in the beginning because I didn’t know how to do it right.

Get a ruler and a cheap measuring tape. This will cost you all of $2.00.

Then measure from the top, any curve straightened against the ruler, for length with the ruler pressed at the base all the way to your pubic bone. This is BPEL.

Girth, measure snugly midshaft and at the base.

Now you can track your progress accurately.

My beginning is just an educated guess from 4.5 NBP I have to surmise that I was 5-5.5 BP because of the thickness of the fat pad which for me is about 1". Back in the summer, when I started, it may have been closer to 1/2" since I had over trained while preparing for a triathlon and my body fat percentage was too low. Guessing with PE isn’t the best way to go.

BTW, about the size thing. My wife and I discuss it frankly and honestly. She says I’m a bit on the small side in her experience. However it doesn’t diminish our sexual enjoyment of each other. There are other things that can make up for size. As I slowly get bigger, that just makes things better for us both. Your lady may not have meant anything negative with what she said to you. She may have? That is for the two of you to sort out.

Here is some reading to help you out with the confidence too. Great for the bigger guys. Vital for us little guys. Give Her the Big O

Also, some expertise on oral and digital techniques is very helpful. SKINFUL.com: Cunnilingus - The Best Way to Eat Pussy
Read, practice, and be her hero forever.

Best wishes for your progress.