Married guys

Wondering who pumps and doesn’t let the wife know they do. I have been for over a year and the wife has no clue.

She has wondered how my cock has gotten bigger. Just the other day she mentioned afterward that she felt things she never felt before.

Lol, if I had residual pump girth my wife would ask me if I had done my exercises that day after we had sex. She has only asked me this after temporary residual pumping girth. I have since backed off from pumping and I am focusing on extending and more manual approaches to girth. For me pumping was fulfilling that temporary pleasure, but I was not experiencing permanent measurable gains. This was most like due to poor pumping technique, essentially too high vacuum, leading to too much edema.

My wife knows I do PE just not the extent that I’ve gone such as pumping, hanging, clamping etc. She thinks I use my hands only. But I’ll never forget early on when she found an accessory that came with the BM and she freaked out that I was either doing weird sexual things with myself or wasting money on PE. I’ve been pumping since I came back three years ago and I’ve been able to hide it from her. At this point in time it’s not worth sitting down and talking about why I pump and clamp or why I tried hanging. Maybe when my kids are grown and out of the house but not now.

Married and PE in total stealth mode.
I started PE and weightlifting about the same time. With the weightlifting I also ordered a number of supplements.
When the PE gains started showing up that she was making comments and obviously noticing all the credit went to the weightlifting supplements… hence, I never get any shit when I order more supplements.
LOL!

As for pumping, the wifey and I have always had scheduled date nights and interment nights/mornings. This helps me tremendously with my PE schedule.
With that, I only pump at low Hg (3-5) that day to give me a bit of assist but nothing overly obvious.
My biggest chellenge is pre-PE the schedule was twice a week but now she keeps pushing for added days… not exactly the worst challenge to deal with.

Nice! That’s positive feedback for sure.

My SO knows I do PE but not the details on the methods other than “exercises”.
She also commented last fall after my newbie gains that she noticed I was bigger and whatever I was doing, I should keep it up.
I also tend to pump for that extra assist when I know we’re going to be together.

I just started a couple of months ago. She knows I do it and at first thought it was silly and I was just “mangling” myself. I’m just now starting to get some permanent girth gains and a couple nights ago I pumped while she was in the shower. The look on her face when I slid in made it all worth while. She really enjoyed it and commented on it the day after.

I’ve been pumping for a year and my wife knows. Initially, it was to fix my mild ED but i have shifted that purpose to gains. My wife has noticed the girth gains and said something once (i think it was something like; “it feels like your leg is inside me”).

Sometimes, i will pump early before date nite so i am plump for the evening sexy time.