Hey SolidRod, when I was involved in PE a few years back I had a couple messages exchanged with an old member, ill copy and paste them to this post. They are related to what you are talking about, more so the multiple orgasms.
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I’m convinced only defective men actually last a long time without working their butts off at it! Anyway, here’s a link where I post some information and links to more information:
Johanson - Kegels during sex How to prolong, avoid premature, harder erections
The Kegel is simply the action you take when you are trying to avoid urinating or stopping the flow while urinating. Just keep working it - hold it for three seconds and then reverse for three seconds. Repeat it 20-30 times each set, a couple times a day. Then try going longer (5,10,20,30 seconds) for shorter sets (don’t try 20-30 times of 30 second kegels, you might blow up ). The idea is if you can clamp the PC/BC muscle (the kegel muscle) down prior to the beginning of ejaculation you’ll go through the sensations of an orgasm without the ejaculation and only a slight loss of erection (usually quickly regained after a few strokes). A very few can keep stroking while doing this. Most need to stop stroking, ride the orgasm out while doing the kegel, and the resume. The 2nd go-around you get normally lasts much longer than the first.
It’s not easy to master or everyone would be doing it. But it can be learned.
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Originally Posted by Shnordle
Thanks for the information man. I have one last question. What exactly do you mean by ride the orgasm out? When you are about to ejaculate do you reverse kegel or normal kegel? When you have the dray ejaculation and you “ride the orgasm out,” when do you know when to start stroking again? Sorry for the constant flow of questions, I just want things to start working right ).
Thanks.
AH, okay. You have to remember that the concept of a “dry-orgasm” is a little different than NOT having an orgasm. The idea is to have the orgasm but not ejaculate. Men normally assume the orgasm and ejaculating are the same thing. You can have a mind-blowing orgasm with virtually all the sensations and not ejaculate.
You lose the erection after ejaculating but you do not lose the erection from an orgasm without the ejaculation. So when I said “ride the orgasm out” I meant you supress ejaculation by the methods I described, using the kegels to stop ejaculation. Stop stroking during the orgasm - you don’t want additional stimulation while you’re clamping your PC/BC muscle. While you clamp and hold your PC/BC you’ll feel the orgasm just about like normal - the last time I did this I swore I ejaculated too but didn’t. After the orgasm feelings subside you can then resume sex. The beauty of it is it’s about like the second go-around of the evening, it takes longer for you to approach orgasm again the second time. So far, three is as long as I could go before I couldn’t hold ejaculation back any more.