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It Feels Like Your Hitting My Bladder.

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Pain is pain. So believe her if she says it and don’t let her connotate sex with pain. The ctvix is like the tip of a nose protruding into the vaginal tunnel neat the end. The vagina expands a small portion past this and is called the CDS on thunders. Hitting or contact of the cervix is painful on some and not painful on others.

Originally Posted by marinera
Hitting the cervix isn’t bottoming out, as I understand it.

Well, yes and no.

It’s true that one can sometimes go past the cervix into the cul de sac- that would be as far as you could go without actually puncturing your way into other internal organs.

However the cervix is at the end of the vaginal barrel, and so does represent the end of the tunnel, so to speak. The cul de sac is sort of the secret compartment to the side of it. Although, given variations of tilts, etc., not to mention unique vaginal expansion based on an individual’s arousal - the shapes inside there do vary somewhat.

So I guess what I’m saying is: there’s bottoming out and there’s bottoming out.

In any event, to get to the cul de sac you would certainly hit the cervix on your way by. Many women (though not all) find this painful. Depends on the woman, how used to it she is, what she likes, how the specific parts fit together - blah, blah, blah.

This is why I asked questions. The initial post was a little vague as to when and how these things were happening.

Now that he’s been more specific I can say with great certainty: he’s bottoming out.

LAJeffJefferson, pushing past the ‘roadblock’ until you feel a snug grip on your glans most likely means you have pushed past the cervix into her cul de sac.

You are definitely way past her G-spot.

This pleasure/pain experience she is having is because you are going where no man has gone before with her. Having had this experience a few times before, myself, let me say “Congratulations.” Pretty cool, isn’t it?

Now a word or two of advice: go slow. Try to ease your way there so she doesn’t say ow. Be sensitive to her. Sharp intakes of breath, freezing in place and the like means she is aclimatizing to this new found sensation. The slower you go the easier it will be for her. If you can get to that place and pause you might try slowly rotating your hips, maintaining pressure on her pubic bone. A slow and steady grind. If she sets the pace so much the better, let her control it.

What this does is stimulates the clitoris while maintaing deep penetration. The ‘need to pee’ can easily turn into a deeply felt and intense orgasm.

Shaking the tree, as they say.

She may need time (or a few times) to feel comfortable enough with it to fully let go, but if she can stay open to the possibility - well, let’s just say it’ll be worth her effort.

Welcome to Thunder's. You’ve officially struck gold. :thumbs:


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Originally Posted by LAJeffJefferson
On her end she feels the urge to pee .. And If we really get going she’ll tell me to stop so she doesn’t.


I just want to add: “if we really get going” indicates to me going fast and hard. Assuming this is what you mean, that could very well be a stimulus to the G-spot.

Though the G-spot is closer to the opening, your shaft can be maintaining contact with it as you go deep. Quick and intense friction on the G-spot can cause some women to ‘gush’ or ‘squirt’ as folks have mentioned.

The only thing I would say is, if you’re going hard and fast try not to penetrate as deeply - it may ruin it for her. As djrobins wisely pointed out, you don’t want to have her associate this sensation with pain or something that’s unpleasant.

Taking time and letting her discover the rhythm and tempo that works for her is a good way to go. Makes your job easier too. All you have to do is stay hard and assist her.

Now that you know you can hit the cervix, be careful not to in the event you “really get going”.

Unless she screams “Harder!” don’t beat the hell out of her cervix. :leftie:

Enjoy.


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Wow, Mr. Happy. Thank you! And everyone else.

Yes when I said ‘get going’ I meant hard and fast. What I still find strange is that.. I’ve been with this girl for forever. Well, 5 years, but that’s pretty long! This is a relatively new thing for both of us though. Like I said before, this used to happen occasionally over the past 5 years, but every time in the past four months. Is it safe to say this is due to increased size via PE? That seems to make the most sense.

We do usually start slow so she can relax her muscles, but next time I’m just going to sit in there for 10 minutes!

I love it when she says ‘It feels like I’m going to have a huge orgasm if I can just get passed the part where I feel like I’m going to pee (she also associates this with pain and discomfort though)’. And having been with each other for so long I don’t see how we could possibly get more comfortable with each other. I’ll keep working on it. It’s a funny thing really .. No matter how convincing I am or how much I tell her I want her too she just doesn’t understand. When you really love someone you realize that it can actually be better for you when it’s better for her!

We are so open with each other we talk about this almost every day. It’s never a bad conversation either because we both know we have plenty of time to figure it out (our whole lives) .. So while I’m not rushing to find the solution, it’s good to hear the things most of you guys are saying.

Keep up the good work.

And update us if you have any further questions.


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My wife had the same “pee sensation” when I finally got to dip past the cervix. It also started around the 7” BPEL. She did go to the doctor and there were no issues there. I stealth PE so I wasn’t going to tell her it could have been from something I was doing.

It took awhile, maybe 8 months or so but finally it went from the “pee sensation” to the “always want it deep”. Now if I have a bad EQ night from to much stress or drinking she is squirming around, swapping positions to ride top trying to get it jammed back up there. Its a quick orgasm for her now. It definitely turned her into an easy cummer.

Congrats!


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Originally Posted by Mr. Happy
The feeling on the glans.. Is that when you go as deep as you can? Does it feel like you push past a point and then something tightens around the head of your dick?

I have noticed the exact same thing. It’s like another vagina inside the vagina but her experience is quite pleasurable with no pain reported.

Originally Posted by Penox
My wife had the same “pee sensation” when I finally got to dip past the cervix. It also started around the 7” BPEL. She did go to the doctor and there were no issues there. I stealth PE so I wasn’t going to tell her it could have been from something I was doing.

It took awhile, maybe 8 months or so but finally it went from the “pee sensation” to the “always want it deep”. Now if I have a bad EQ night from to much stress or drinking she is squirming around, swapping positions to ride top trying to get it jammed back up there. Its a quick orgasm for her now. It definitely turned her into an easy cummer.

Congrats!

It’s funny but this happened to me also, with my gf. First she had the sensation to pee and after a couple of months , I’m in hell struggling to have perfect EQ each time we have sex else I think she would kill me if I don’t hit her spot , lol . :)


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Originally Posted by ColtAR
I have noticed the exact same thing. It’s like another vagina inside the vagina but her experience is quite pleasurable with no pain reported.

I’ve made the same analogy but never heard another man verbalize the concept. That’s pretty much what it is. A snug 1-2” of vaginal pocket at the back, that most other men will never enter.

It might be her feeling like an orgasim is coming when girls are going to release a secretion it feels like they have to pee


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God thats gorgeous!

This is probably whats about to happen when your girl feels like she is going to pee, although her response may not be as intense.

Mr.Happy, I love that quote at the very end of your post.. Welcome to THUNDERS, you’ve struck gold (thumbsup). That needs to be the slogan for this place. I tried P.E. A few years back & do it off & on and IT WORKS. You here that anyone out there who is lurking but not sure? This stuff works! So stop lurking and get jerking!

Also, I have been with a good number of women over the years not due to my looks but rather my job, and consider myself a knowledged man sexually. Hell, I considered myself a beast before I got TOO fat. Since joining Thunders, I have learned about the CDS- anterior & posterior fornix, and about “dry orgasming”. I am recently divorced and decided I needed to start P.E. Again, and also mastering the “dry nut” aka “dry orgasm”.

So like you said.. Welcome to THUNDERS, you’ve struck gold!

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