Originally Posted by marinera
Hitting the cervix isn’t bottoming out, as I understand it.
Well, yes and no.
It’s true that one can sometimes go past the cervix into the cul de sac- that would be as far as you could go without actually puncturing your way into other internal organs.
However the cervix is at the end of the vaginal barrel, and so does represent the end of the tunnel, so to speak. The cul de sac is sort of the secret compartment to the side of it. Although, given variations of tilts, etc., not to mention unique vaginal expansion based on an individual’s arousal - the shapes inside there do vary somewhat.
So I guess what I’m saying is: there’s bottoming out and there’s bottoming out.
In any event, to get to the cul de sac you would certainly hit the cervix on your way by. Many women (though not all) find this painful. Depends on the woman, how used to it she is, what she likes, how the specific parts fit together - blah, blah, blah.
This is why I asked questions. The initial post was a little vague as to when and how these things were happening.
Now that he’s been more specific I can say with great certainty: he’s bottoming out.
LAJeffJefferson, pushing past the ‘roadblock’ until you feel a snug grip on your glans most likely means you have pushed past the cervix into her cul de sac.
You are definitely way past her G-spot.
This pleasure/pain experience she is having is because you are going where no man has gone before with her. Having had this experience a few times before, myself, let me say “Congratulations.” Pretty cool, isn’t it?
Now a word or two of advice: go slow. Try to ease your way there so she doesn’t say ow. Be sensitive to her. Sharp intakes of breath, freezing in place and the like means she is aclimatizing to this new found sensation. The slower you go the easier it will be for her. If you can get to that place and pause you might try slowly rotating your hips, maintaining pressure on her pubic bone. A slow and steady grind. If she sets the pace so much the better, let her control it.
What this does is stimulates the clitoris while maintaing deep penetration. The ‘need to pee’ can easily turn into a deeply felt and intense orgasm.
Shaking the tree, as they say.
She may need time (or a few times) to feel comfortable enough with it to fully let go, but if she can stay open to the possibility - well, let’s just say it’ll be worth her effort.
Welcome to Thunder's. You’ve officially struck gold. :thumbs: