Investment of the year

…yes, today I measured my BPEL and it was 17cm(6,8”)and basegirth about 5”. My X-Mas goal was 7” but I´m happy with this anyway, by the way, my final goal is 8” NBPEL and 6” girth…
Instead of watching TV, I did my workouts 5 times a week and now it is giving something back.
I´ve been doing this since August, starting with 15cm (6”).

My routine is very simple:
5-15min manual streching
15-30min jelqing (some Ulis or/and horses during jelqing)

Some off topic:
I was with one girl last weekend, she said “You´ll get anything what you want from me”. She has had only once sex before me. I was in heaven, but then my dick shot me down, it just didn´t get up. Finally I got somekind of erection, I really didn´t feel very satisfied afterwards. It was my first time and to be honest, it didn´t felt very “special”, I just had waited something more.
Does anyone have somekind experiences?
Thanks anyway, sorry about my English

A very normal first time experience, Kbtd. I bet a huge percentage of guys were too excited or nervous with lots of thoughts spinning through their head which kind of blocks out the natural erection function. You’ll have no probs. once you get a bit more practice with a partner. Don’t worry it will definitely get more fun!

thanks, I hope so.

That is a totally normal experience because of the tension and anxiety. Try to relax and enjoy the moment.

Tension is definately a killer. Even after many years of having sex I still feel tense with a new partner at first. Especially if no bond has been built up. I.e. one night stand.

I tried to lose my virginity a few times but nerves stopped me from losing it to some beautiful girls. Thoughts like will I come to quick, has she had bigger, will she like my body, does she like me, is my technique any good enough all made sure that even if I did get an erection it wasn’t so hard.

Really though nearly all the best sex I’ve had has been with long term partners. Once you get to know each other trust builds up and you start to make love to a girl rather than just f*ck them. Really it’s only in a relationship that you learn to be a good lover (i.e. technique) I doubt people who have only had many one night stands truely know how to please a woman. Women are more willing to comunicate what they want when they trust you.

So kbtd i don’t know how old you are but rest assured your experience is a very common one. It’s just that men (especially) young men are not likely to discuss this sort of things with their friends for fear of being mocked. Every man has this idea that he has to be some stalion right from the start. Truth is none of us are.

I guess you are right delectric. I´m 19, I´ve had many chances to lose my virginity but I haven´t “used” them. I just didn´t want to f*ck with someone who I don´t really know.

That is like from my life…

If someone has asked about my virginity and I have answered honestly, yes I´m. They were like, what! YOU, no, that is not possible. I know that many girls thinks I´m good looking and so on, but…

I hope that this relationship, I´m having now, is going to last bit longer than the others.

I was an idiot. All the past chances I had to lose my cherry I told the girls I wasn’t a virgin. Stupid male ego. In the end I lost it at 17 which is relatively young but it wasn’t to the girl I wanted. It was definately to do more with peer pressure than anything else otherwise I would have waited for someone special.

I remember looking at the clock on the bedside. I think I lasted about two minutes. Though I lied to my friends and said 5 minutes. Anyway I wasn’t too stressed at least compared to my other attempts. Ah you never get a second chance at losing it.

Hope your more successful bro.

Oh one more thing. I just read your first thread and it reminded me of one of the times I tried to lose my virginity. The girl was just like yours had, had one partner. To me she seemed very sexually mature. I was so nervous when It came round to sex that I got an erection but then it just shot down limp.

Went to the Dr because I thought i might be impudent (he laughed)! At the time the stress seemed like the end of the world. Turns out she just wasn’t the one for me.

Dont worry! Once you get to a certain age, this will not happen anymore.