I'm going to start again, but whats this all about

Hey everybody!

A long time ago I found out about this site and before that I was doing it on and off for a long time,
Not even knowing how to do it properly. Now I’m going to start again with the newbie routine, beginning at the start again.
By the way, I always did the newbie routine and most of the times after I did the exercises I found out that my penis was
Numb and trying to get as short as it gets. After doing the exercises on and off I also noticed it more numb than before.
Anyone knows whats that all about?

Now some info about my size:

Flaccid length - 8 cm
Flaccid length to the bone - 11 cm
Flaccid girth - 11 cm

*Watching porn to get a quick hard-on*

Erect length - 14 cm
Erect length to the bone - 15 cm
Erect girth - 13 cm

(If someone could give me the names of the things I named in letters. That’s what I see all the time here in TP but I still don’t
Know them after doing several searches)

For the exercises I’m going to by that infrared light as it stimulates growth as I have read here.
Usually I do the exercises in the shower with hot water, but I find myself not being motivated.
This partly has to do with the fact that I’m not gaining and not having a regular thing.
Most of the time when I was off TP I just did some jelqs and stretches (the good way though) as much as I felt doing.
Meaning the exercises were only 5-10 minutes all combined.

I’m 20 now, in the know of the exercises at 15 and started doing them at 17 on and off for long periods (mostly off)
And after all this time I could have so much more gain if I’d stick to it. Now I only made +1 cm length and +1 cm girth.
This in a period a few years ago. Most of my friends, nephews, brothers, cousins etc. All have a size that’s at least 23 cm length, on top of the porn, I’m in the know of this. But still, I’d be happy with 17 or 18 length and girth something fitting with that size.

I also have this thing, maybe it has to do with my size I don’t know. Had someone and I was on and off with her till now.
I broke up with her for several reasons but this was the true reason. I only fucked her. Having experience, but only with her.
I have this issue that I just can’t fuck another girl. Even if I confess that I fucked only one girl in my life, nobody believes it.
Wanting to get rid of it to get over this, but even if I try I make up things, not fucking or getting my dick sucked eventually.
They can suck my dick, that’s cool, but fucking? No, that’s another thing. Maybe it has to do with my size that I am insecure of?
I even went to a stripclub and private club with some friends of mine and didn’t do nothing even though it was getting paid!
But today was crossing the line man, like what the fuck? Personally I don’t have nothing against gay people (I have friends that are gay) but there was some dude trying to get at me while I was helping him out, till the point that he got me angry. Anyway I felt like this was a sign that I have to do something about it. But I don’t know man, what do you guys think of it?

J.B.

I know how it sucks, all my friends cousins etc. are at least 2 meters tall.

Serioulsy mate, you have normal length and you have a good girth. You already gained 1 cm if I read it correctly, so your only problem is being systematic. Erratic off and on can be worse than doing nothing, IMHO.

And at 20 years old having fucked only one girl is not necessarily a bad sign.

What is that avatar doing?? Crunches in a tube, or am I visually handicapped?

If you are getting numb and your penis is shrinking, it means you are doing your routine way too hard and you are causing damage. Back way off on the amount of force you are using. Your penis should look healthy after your workout and your erections should improve, not get worse. If you get negative signs, you are doing it too hard.

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Also read this: START HERE ——-> NEWBIE ROUTINE <——- Important Newbie Threads/Info

:rolling:

I think this statement would be a better fit:

I know how it sucks, all my friends cousins etc. are at least 3 meters tall.

Yours also?! That’s astonishing!!!

23cm? Come on man. “Most” of your friends and family? I could see a couple but yeah.

Yeah I know it sounds ridiculous, but it’s a fact.
I’m “one of the few” that’s under that standard.

No it’s not shrinking by size. I know about the newbie routine and the PI signs to look out for.
I also get a bit more in the erection area and I know when I’m doing it to hard because in the beginning it did shrink by size and girth. Right after the workout it looks healthy, but lets say after 30 min/1 hour it starts to get as little as possible and it starts to feel numb like. I’m not doing it to hard it’s something that appeared not to long ago (1/2 year -1 year).

I have a question though I did the Bib thing with the clock and so.
I have the tunica one as it was at 7:00. So is there something I should look out for doing the routines
Now that I’m in the know of that?

Yeah, the systematic thing is the issue. I got to find a way to keep doing it, without getting demotivated.
True, but it would be more efficient though to do it systematically.

It’s not that I find it a bad thing, it’s just that I had so much opportunities to do it and I like chickened out or something :S.
The chickening out or whatever it is that’s what I want to resolve. I never had a complain from her about my size over the past 6 years, but I still want to work on it you know.

Measured from the anus maybe.

I’m curious, just how did you come to the conclusion that it’s a “fact”?

He is from the Netherlands. In the Netherlands they measure all the guys erections and put it on their drivers licenses just like height and weight.

Oh, that explains it. The only question that remains is whether the (at least) 23 cm is BPEL or NBPEL. :D

Ok, I got it. I think a way could be doing many short sessions instead than one, long boring session. Here you are the kind of routine that could help you being more systematic:
2-inch Growth Comparative Pictures

Just remember that it’s not the force that you use the most important thing to make your penis grow, but the total time the you work it with a moderate force :you are young, maybe there is still some natural growth going on, just add some stimulus in the course of the day to enhance your young gun becoming bigger.

As a side note, a bigger penis can make you more confidente with women maybe, but the more important things is to just avoid thinking too much instead than do your move. Don’t take yourself too seriously, don’t think too much, don’t think that you being perfect is a necessary pre-requisite to have sex with girls.