I think I am jelqing wrong, and need help
I have watched the jelqing videos, and read plenty of threads on beginner jelqing, but I think I am doing it wrong.
First, I have a hard time keeping a semi. This worries me, but I can solve it by putting on porn in the background. I just look up at some tits when I need to get a bit harder.
Second, here is the real issue. At the end of the jelq, the glans gets quite large. Just as large as with a kegel on a 100% erection, if not even a tad larger. It feels good :) However, when the jelq is not yet at the glans of the penis, I don’t really see the remaining shaft getting as large as 100% erection or 100%+kegel. I also don’t see the penis getting as long as 100% erection or 100%+kegel. Am I explaining this in a way that is comprehensible? Should I only see the immediate result of the jelq in the glans, or should I see it through the whole penis?
What information do you need from me to diagnose if I am jelqing properly? I could try to take a video.
I am 5.75” BPEL x 4.5” EG, if it matters. My glans is probably more like 3.5” to 4” EG, it’s smaller than the shaft.