I Can't Believe It

It’s just hard asf. I’m finally starting to get more confidence talking to hot girls and stuff but I know I want them to be satisfied when I go to “do” them. So I want to hold off porn and masturbation and overdoing PE but it’s just hard man. Do you have any tips? How do you pace yourself? And since I’m a newbie I can’t really tell when I should rest because it doesn’t feel sore. But before you answer my questions you should know that I haven’t PEd in a day so.

I don’t suggest waiting until you are sore to rest. If you have been doing a lot of PE taking a break regardless if it hurts or not is sometimes the most important part of your routine. It gives you a chance to not only rest your body but also your mind, so when you do go back you can look at everything with a clearer picture of what you are actually doing with your body. Like I have said before I am new to this as well, but I equate to any other work out. When you lift weights you cause micro tears in your muscles and the off days allow your body to heal those tears building up the muscle. If you were you to just keep lifting with out any down time you’ll have negative gains.

@Trying2reach7

From the way you think and talk, I understand you are young.
PE is mostly for you, not for the “hot girls”. Your starting size is enough to please them. There is more to sex than a big cock.
There is even more in a relationship.

Don’t get all crazy with size. Learn also how to court a woman…
The size of your mind is also important….

Your first sentence is where you always want to be. If you continue doing a power routine with an “out of shape” penis, then you are going to blow something. What do you suppose will happen to your confidence when your penis doesn’t get “hard asf” anymore. Been there; done that. When you lose it, you lose your self esteem and it takes a long time to get it back. In fact, your dick will heal faster than your mind and confidence. Take a week or two off and then start on the newbie routine. Watch your penis closely and take detailed notes on how it responds.

Doing this right will take some time and will seem like the world will end before you get some gains. The fact is you will have something to be proud of in a years time. With PE, you are learning more than just how to make your penis larger. Take the time to figure it out just don’t blow a gasket in the process.

Guess what.. This is my first time reading your reply and in that time I have took about a week off already so I followed your advice. Now I’m back to the newbie routine and I will do it every night before bed only. How does that sound to you? Plus as an added bonus, I will stop watching porn and masterbating and in that meantime I will only see if I can talk to girls. That’s should increase my confidence, help me get “experience” and grow my penis all in the same time. Sounds good? Plus I would like it if you can email me instead of me having to log onto here everytime. That way I can respond faster and you can be my accountability partner. What do you say?

I hope when you said every night, you imply you’ll be doing the 2 on 1 off rotation.

I don’t mind the emails but posting here benefits everybody.

Having an accountability partner is good but it is much more beneficial if its someone you know personally. Your pastor, friend or family member would be good choices. If not, I will do my best. :)

Now for the rest of it: You should do the Newbie routine but not every night. Try a one on/ one off schedule or a two on/ one off if it pleases you. Just like body building, PE stresses the tissues requiring a certain amount of recuperation time. This depends totally on your body. Some need more. Some need less.

Porn will wreck your image of women and will spiral you farther and farther into the pit of weirdness. Where once an image of breasts make you excited, you will find you need more and more stimulation. Searching for that, you find weird stuff. It freaks you out to start with then becomes tolerable. After a while, it becomes what you need for stimulation. Don’t go there.

Talking to women without the intention to make them a girlfriend or more is a great way to increase your confidence. Spend more time listening and then throw in a few words that confirm your attention. Women don’t need more than that. Most just like having an ear to talk to. (Important:Don’t talk about yourself unless asked then make it brief and somewhat cryptic. Women love a mystery.)Don’t make moves on them and play hard to get. If you don’t get laid, so what. A long lasting, meaningful relationship is ten times better than a one night stand in my opinion.

Yeah please keep it in the forum, I and I’m sure many others will appreciate it a lot.

Just from reading this thread I may have saved a “gasket” or 2.

Cheers guys.

I didn’t imply that but I will starting tonight

OK I’ll keep it here and what did you mean by gasket

Hm. Never thought of it like that.

I can’t go to them cause I can’t tell people I know about PE unless I wanna be laughed at. And my fam think porn is normal.

Google definition: A gasket is a mechanical seal which fills the space between two or more mating surfaces, generally to prevent leakage from or into the joined objects while under compression. Gaskets allow “less-than-perfect” mating surfaces on machine parts where they can fill irregularities.

Ie. Don’t break your unit, gasket being a metaphor for any essential inner workings of your penis That under pressure could blow Or be damaged creating a weakness or “leak”.

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