Help with low libido!

Hi everyone, I just want to know why my libido lowered, I used to masturbate 4-5 times a day sometimes. This past 4 months I had to overcome the following situations:

1-the death of my uncle
2-my dad almost dies because of an internal bleeding in his stomach caused by an ulcer, he had an emergency operation to remove this
3-my girlfriend broke up with me
4-I have been playing 5-6 hours a day the guitar. I will make a recital in a few months
5-My hair started to thin and this stresses me a bit

I don’t know if these situations influenced my libido, stress lowers libido?. I would like to know if someone went throughout something similar like me. thanks!!

You’re too stressed to get an erection. You need to forget about PE for a while and focus on those things first.

1.) A death in the family is sad but it happens and when it does all you can really focus on is the good that person brought into your life.
2.) You should probably spend more time with your dad and be grateful that this was just a scare and not a sudden death.
3.) Grieve over your ex for a week or two and then get on with your life. She’s not worth constantly beating yourself up over.
4.) You way want to cancel the recital to deal with your issues. It’s just adding too much stress to a whole shitstorm of anxiety.
5.) Then stop worrying. If you need help go talk to your doc and get a mood stabilizer. Otherwise eat better, sleep a little more, and let the dumb shit go.

Sorry for your loss!

I agree with TGD. Take care of yourself, spend some time with your family and let it take it’s time.

Sex drive and EQ can get low or disappear when going through stress so don’t beat yourself up if you can’t get a hard on. It will come back.

I loose my sex-drive completely if I have too much work and I’m feeling stressed about it.

I wouldn’t recommend cancelling the gig, though. Being close to many musicians I know that playing live can and will let you let the tension go. Just practice to get it right BEFORE playing live, so when you have to play you can actually relax and enjoy the show.

Sorry to hear about the death of your uncle!

How is your diet?

If you stress alot, try to take magnesium supplement and try to drink green tea, it worked great for me.

Get well!

I eat super healthy, i eat a lot of vegetables, rice, cereals, fish, chicken, meat. no junk food, i don’t smoke or drink and exercise 3 times per week

Oysters, sunlight, exercise

I think almost all ED issues are physical unless you’re under SEVERE emotional TRAUMA

Anyone had a experience where there libido lowered and then you recovered it?. Now my parents will go through a divorce very soon, now I have another stress factor

Your parent’s divorce HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

If you are going to yell in all capitals then at least try to make sense.

Just because he is in no way responsible for his parents divorce doesn’t mean its not going to affect him in a very profound way.

Hey before you jump on me, why don’t you PM me.

Would that be a better way to handle conflict and moderate these forums?

No. Other people read that your behavior is not acceptable so we save time.

Is it that? Or is the over sensitive mods of Thunders Place?

Another personal remark? Take 1 week hold. We are having way too much patience with you but you’ll not have many more chances, be aware.

How was that even personal?